Quotes & Sayings


We, and creation itself, actualize the possibilities of the God who sustains the world, towards becoming in the world in a fuller, more deeper way. - R.E. Slater

There is urgency in coming to see the world as a web of interrelated processes of which we are integral parts, so that all of our choices and actions have [consequential effects upon] the world around us. - Process Metaphysician Alfred North Whitehead

Kurt Gödel's Incompleteness Theorem says (i) all closed systems are unprovable within themselves and, that (ii) all open systems are rightly understood as incomplete. - R.E. Slater

The most true thing about you is what God has said to you in Christ, "You are My Beloved." - Tripp Fuller

The God among us is the God who refuses to be God without us, so great is God's Love. - Tripp Fuller

According to some Christian outlooks we were made for another world. Perhaps, rather, we were made for this world to recreate, reclaim, redeem, and renew unto God's future aspiration by the power of His Spirit. - R.E. Slater

Our eschatological ethos is to love. To stand with those who are oppressed. To stand against those who are oppressing. It is that simple. Love is our only calling and Christian Hope. - R.E. Slater

Secularization theory has been massively falsified. We don't live in an age of secularity. We live in an age of explosive, pervasive religiosity... an age of religious pluralism. - Peter L. Berger

Exploring the edge of life and faith in a post-everything world. - Todd Littleton

I don't need another reason to believe, your love is all around for me to see. – Anon

Thou art our need; and in giving us more of thyself thou givest us all. - Khalil Gibran, Prayer XXIII

Be careful what you pretend to be. You become what you pretend to be. - Kurt Vonnegut

Religious beliefs, far from being primary, are often shaped and adjusted by our social goals. - Jim Forest

We become who we are by what we believe and can justify. - R.E. Slater

People, even more than things, need to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. – Anon

Certainly, God's love has made fools of us all. - R.E. Slater

An apocalyptic Christian faith doesn't wait for Jesus to come, but for Jesus to become in our midst. - R.E. Slater

Christian belief in God begins with the cross and resurrection of Jesus, not with rational apologetics. - Eberhard Jüngel, Jürgen Moltmann

Our knowledge of God is through the 'I-Thou' encounter, not in finding God at the end of a syllogism or argument. There is a grave danger in any Christian treatment of God as an object. The God of Jesus Christ and Scripture is irreducibly subject and never made as an object, a force, a power, or a principle that can be manipulated. - Emil Brunner

“Ehyeh Asher Ehyeh” means "I will be that who I have yet to become." - God (Ex 3.14) or, conversely, “I AM who I AM Becoming.”

Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy. - Thomas Merton

The church is God's world-changing social experiment of bringing unlikes and differents to the Eucharist/Communion table to share life with one another as a new kind of family. When this happens, we show to the world what love, justice, peace, reconciliation, and life together is designed by God to be. The church is God's show-and-tell for the world to see how God wants us to live as a blended, global, polypluralistic family united with one will, by one Lord, and baptized by one Spirit. – Anon

The cross that is planted at the heart of the history of the world cannot be uprooted. - Jacques Ellul

The Unity in whose loving presence the universe unfolds is inside each person as a call to welcome the stranger, protect animals and the earth, respect the dignity of each person, think new thoughts, and help bring about ecological civilizations. - John Cobb & Farhan A. Shah

If you board the wrong train it is of no use running along the corridors of the train in the other direction. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer

God's justice is restorative rather than punitive; His discipline is merciful rather than punishing; His power is made perfect in weakness; and His grace is sufficient for all. – Anon

Our little [biblical] systems have their day; they have their day and cease to be. They are but broken lights of Thee, and Thou, O God art more than they. - Alfred Lord Tennyson

We can’t control God; God is uncontrollable. God can’t control us; God’s love is uncontrolling! - Thomas Jay Oord

Life in perspective but always in process... as we are relational beings in process to one another, so life events are in process in relation to each event... as God is to Self, is to world, is to us... like Father, like sons and daughters, like events... life in process yet always in perspective. - R.E. Slater

To promote societal transition to sustainable ways of living and a global society founded on a shared ethical framework which includes respect and care for the community of life, ecological integrity, universal human rights, respect for diversity, economic justice, democracy, and a culture of peace. - The Earth Charter Mission Statement

Christian humanism is the belief that human freedom, individual conscience, and unencumbered rational inquiry are compatible with the practice of Christianity or even intrinsic in its doctrine. It represents a philosophical union of Christian faith and classical humanist principles. - Scott Postma

It is never wise to have a self-appointed religious institution determine a nation's moral code. The opportunities for moral compromise and failure are high; the moral codes and creeds assuredly racist, discriminatory, or subjectively and religiously defined; and the pronouncement of inhumanitarian political objectives quite predictable. - R.E. Slater

God's love must both center and define the Christian faith and all religious or human faiths seeking human and ecological balance in worlds of subtraction, harm, tragedy, and evil. - R.E. Slater

In Whitehead’s process ontology, we can think of the experiential ground of reality as an eternal pulse whereby what is objectively public in one moment becomes subjectively prehended in the next, and whereby the subject that emerges from its feelings then perishes into public expression as an object (or “superject”) aiming for novelty. There is a rhythm of Being between object and subject, not an ontological division. This rhythm powers the creative growth of the universe from one occasion of experience to the next. This is the Whiteheadian mantra: “The many become one and are increased by one.” - Matthew Segall

Without Love there is no Truth. And True Truth is always Loving. There is no dichotomy between these terms but only seamless integration. This is the premier centering focus of a Processual Theology of Love. - R.E. Slater

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Note: Generally I do not respond to commentary. I may read the comments but wish to reserve my time to write (or write from the comments I read). Instead, I'd like to see our community help one another and in the helping encourage and exhort each of us towards Christian love in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior. - re slater

Friday, June 26, 2026

Open Relational Becoming (2)



ESSAY TWO
ORIENTATION TO METAPHYSICS

Reality → Ontology → Metaphysics → Theology → Ethics → Participation

Ontology disciplines metaphysics lest it become mere speculation.
Metaphysics enlarges ontology lest description never asks why.

Open Relational Becoming

Toward an Open and Relational Process Metaphysics

Metaphysics II - Reality as Unfinished, Relational, and Generative

by R.E. Slater and ChatGPT


The most incomprehensible thing about the universe
is that it is comprehensible.
- Albert Einstein

Life is chemistry with history.
- Paul Nurse

The universe is under no obligation to make sense to you.
- Neil deGrasse Tyson

Every living reality exists not by standing still,
but by participating within its continual becoming.
- R.E. Slater

We are explorers within an unfinished,
relational, and generative reality.

If reality is never finally finished,
then it is always becoming
more than it has been.
 - R.E. Slater


Essay Outline
Preface
I. Beyond Finished Worlds
II. Reality as Unfinished
III. Reality as Relational 
IV. Reality as Generative
V. Toward an Open and Relational Process Metaphysics
VI. An Unfinished Philosophy
VII. Conclusion: The Journey Continues
Bibliography


Preface

The previous essay concluded by suggesting that reality may be far richer than any single description can fully contain. Ontology had carried us as far as it could by asking, What is reality? Metaphysics now begins asking a different question: What kind of reality continually gives rise to relation, novelty, meaning, consciousness, creativity, and participation?

The purpose of this essay is not to establish a finished metaphysical system. Rather, it is to explore a possibility.

What if reality itself is fundamentally open?

What if relation is more basic than isolation?

What if becoming is more fundamental than static being?

And what if the creativity we observe throughout nature, life, culture, and human history is not accidental but expressive of reality's own generative character?

These questions do not arise from speculation alone. They emerge from the cumulative observations of the preceding Reality & Cosmology Series on ontology. There we found reality repeatedly exhibiting relation before separation, coherence before stability, embodiment before abstraction, persistence through adaptation, identity through continuity, meaning through participation, direction through emergence, and possibility through openness. Such observations invite a larger question:

Perhaps these recurring characteristics are not merely features within reality.

Perhaps they disclose something about the character of reality itself.

This essay therefore introduces what will become the constructive proposal of the metaphysical series: Open Relational Becoming. It is offered neither as a final philosophy nor as a replacement for every previous metaphysical system. Rather, it serves as a philosophical orientation - an invitation to consider whether reality is better understood as unfinished than completed, relational than isolated, and continually generative rather than fundamentally static.

Such a proposal does not diminish the achievements of earlier philosophies. Every age inherits the insights of those who came before it. We remain indebted to those traditions, not because they have spoken the final word, but because they have taught us how to ask better questions. Their enduring gift lies not simply in their conclusions, but in the conversations they continue to inspire.

If reality itself remains unfinished, then our philosophy of reality must likewise remain open to continued discovery. The goal is therefore:

Not certainty, but correspondence;

Not closure, but participation;

Not merely explanation, but an ever-deepening understanding of the reality within which we ourselves continue to become.


I. Beyond Finished Worlds

For much of Western intellectual history, reality has often been imagined as something fundamentally complete.

Whether described as eternal forms, immutable substances, fixed natural laws, or predetermined cosmic orders, the dominant metaphysical imagination has frequently sought permanence over process and stability over becoming. Change was often understood as movement toward an already established end rather than as the continual emergence of genuinely new possibilities.

There were good reasons for this.

Human beings naturally seek stability. We desire dependable patterns, enduring identities, and truths capable of surviving the uncertainties of history. Civilizations are built upon continuity. Scientific inquiry depends upon regularity. Moral communities require trust. Religious traditions often preserve wisdom precisely because they endure across generations.

Without continuity, there could be no meaningful history. Without persistence, there could be no identity. Without order, there could be no knowledge. The search for permanence has therefore been one of humanity's great intellectual achievements.

Yet permanence alone does not fully describe the world we encounter. 

Everywhere we look, reality appears active rather than inert. Stars are born and die. Continents drift. Species emerge, diversify, and disappear. Cultures evolve. Languages change. Knowledge expands. Children become adults. Civilizations rise and fall. Even the cells composing our bodies participate in continual processes of renewal. Nothing living simply remains what it was.

Nor does the universe appear content merely to repeat itself.

Throughout cosmic history, increasingly complex forms of organization have emerged - from elementary particles to atoms, from stars to planets, from chemistry to biology, from life to consciousness, from consciousness to culture, science, morality, and imagination. Reality appears remarkably creative.

This observation does not require us to deny stability. Rather, it invites us to reconsider its place. Perhaps stability is not reality's deepest characteristic but one expression of deeper relational processes continually generating, sustaining, and transforming what exists.

If so, permanence and change need no longer be understood as opposites.

Persistence may itself arise through continual becoming.

Identity may endure precisely because it remains capable of adaptation.

Order may emerge through relation rather than despite it.

Such possibilities suggest that reality may be neither a completed structure nor a finished machine, but an unfinished adventure continually disclosing new possibilities without abandoning the coherence already achieved.

This possibility marks the beginning of an open and relational process metaphysics.

It does not ask us to abandon the past. It asks us to see the past as still participating in the becoming of the present. Reality, then, is not less dependable because it remains unfinished. It may instead be dependable precisely because it possesses the remarkable capacity to generate continuity through change, coherence through relation, and novelty through participation.


II. Reality as Unfinished

To describe reality as unfinished is not to suggest that reality is somehow defective or incomplete. Rather, it is to suggest that reality continually possesses genuine possibilities not yet realized.

There is an important difference.

An unfinished painting is not necessarily a failed painting. It may already possess coherence, beauty, and direction while still inviting further expression. Likewise, a growing child is not an incomplete adult in any negative sense. Growth is not evidence of deficiency but of life itself.

Perhaps reality should be understood in a similar way.

Throughout nature we encounter processes rather than static conditions. Galaxies continue forming. Stars continue creating the elements from which planets and life emerge. Evolution continues generating new forms of biological existence. Human cultures continue reshaping themselves. Scientific understanding continually expands. Personal identities mature through relationships, memory, suffering, hope, and experience.

Reality does not simply exist.

Reality unfolds.

This observation does not deny continuity. Quite the opposite. It suggests that continuity itself may be the manner by which reality carries its history forward while remaining open to futures not yet realized.

Such openness is neither chaos nor randomness.

Possibility exists alongside regularity.

Novelty emerges within continuity.

Freedom participates alongside order.

The future is not wholly determined, nor is it wholly disconnected from the past. Rather, every present moment receives an inheritance while simultaneously contributing something genuinely new to what follows.

Here the language of becoming becomes especially important. Becoming is not merely change. Everything changes. Mountains erode. Stars exhaust their fuel. Living organisms age.

But becoming speaks of something more profound than alteration alone. It speaks of the continual emergence of new relationships, new meanings, new possibilities, and new forms of participation arising from what has already been given.

Reality, therefore, may not simply be moving through time.

Reality may be continually creating history.

This possibility represents one of the central intuitions of an open and relational process metaphysics. Reality is not viewed as a completed structure awaiting discovery, but as an ongoing adventure in which novelty, continuity, relation, and participation continually coexist.

If this is so, then becoming is not merely one feature of reality.

It may be one of reality's deepest ways of being.


III. Reality as Relational

If becoming is one of reality's deepest characteristics, then another question naturally follows.

What allows becoming to remain coherent?

How does novelty avoid collapsing into chaos?

Why does continuity repeatedly emerge amid continual change?

One possible answer is relation.

Throughout the preceding ontological studies, relation repeatedly appeared before nearly every other characteristic of reality. Coherence arose through relation. Embodiment expressed relation. Persistence depended upon relation. Identity matured through relation. Meaning emerged through participation. Even possibility seemed inseparable from the network of relationships through which new futures became imaginable.

This repeated pattern invites a metaphysical question.

Perhaps relation is not merely something occurring within reality.

Perhaps relation is one of reality's deepest modes of existence.

Such a proposal represents a significant departure from many classical metaphysical traditions, where independently existing substances often preceded their relationships. But an open and relational metaphysics begins from the opposite direction. Reality is understood not as isolated things that later interact, but as an ongoing field of relationships within which identities continually emerge, endure, and transform.

Nothing exists entirely alone. Atoms exist within quantum fields. Living organisms exist within living ecosystems. Persons exist within families, communities, histories, languages, and cultures. Civilizations emerge through countless interwoven relationships extending across generations. Even consciousness appears inseparable from continual interaction between body, environment, memory, and experience.

Relation is not simply added to reality. It appears woven into reality's very fabric. This does not eliminate individuality. Quite the opposite. Individuals become increasingly distinctive precisely because they participate within increasingly rich networks of relationship.

Identity and relation are therefore not opposites. They mature together. To exist is not merely to occupy space. It is to participate relationally with the world.

Perhaps this explains why becoming remains coherent. Reality does not continually generate novelty by abandoning what came before. It generates novelty by continually transforming inherited relationships into new forms of participation. 

If becoming describes reality's movement, relation may describe its grammar.

Together they suggest a universe that is neither static nor fragmented, but continuously weaving continuity, novelty, identity, and possibility into an ever-deepening tapestry of becoming.


IV. Reality as Generative

If reality is unfinished, and if becoming unfolds through relation, then another question naturally arises.

Why does reality appear capable of continually generating novelty?

Change alone cannot answer this question. A pendulum changes position, yet nothing genuinely new emerges. The seasons repeat. Waves rise and fall. Even erosion gradually reshapes a mountain without introducing fundamentally new forms of existence.

Reality appears capable of something more.

Throughout cosmic history we encounter recurring moments in which entirely new possibilities emerge. Elementary particles become atoms. Atoms become stars. Stars forge the elements from which planets arise. Chemistry becomes biology. Life becomes consciousness. Consciousness gives rise to language, imagination, science, morality, music, philosophy, and culture.

At each stage reality appears capable of expressing possibilities that were not previously evident, while remaining continuous with everything that came before. This recurring pattern suggests that reality is not merely changing. It is generating.

Generativity differs from simple novelty. Novelty may describe whatever is new. Generativity describes the continual capacity of reality to produce new forms of coherence, relationship, participation, meaning, and existence.

It is creativity unfolding within continuity.

This observation need not imply that every development is progressive, nor that history follows a predetermined direction. Reality also includes collapse, extinction, tragedy, and failure. Not every possibility is realized. Not every emergence endures.

Yet even failure becomes part of reality's continuing history.

New possibilities often arise precisely through previous endings. Forests regenerate after fire. Cultures renew themselves after collapse. Scientific revolutions emerge through the recognition of earlier limitations. Personal transformation frequently begins where older certainties prove insufficient.

Reality seems capable not only of producing new beginnings, but of continually transforming inherited histories into fresh possibilities.

Perhaps this is one reason becoming and relation remain inseparable. Nothing emerges from nothing. Every new possibility inherits a history. Every future grows from relationships already established. Generativity, therefore, is neither accidental nor detached from reality's past. It is the continual participation of the present in transforming what has been received into what has not yet existed.

If this observation proves trustworthy, then creativity is not merely a human achievement.

It may be one of reality's deepest characteristics.

Reality does not simply preserve what already exists.

It continually invites what may yet become.


V. Toward an Open and Relational Process Metaphysics

Taken individually, the preceding observations may appear familiar.

Many philosophers have spoken of becoming.

Scientists routinely investigate emergence.

Historians describe continual cultural transformation.

Biologists study evolution.

Psychologists observe human development.

Religious traditions speak of conversion, transformation, and renewal.

None of these observations is entirely new.

What may be new is considering them together.

If reality repeatedly exhibits openness, becoming, relation, and generativity, perhaps these are not isolated characteristics but interconnected expressions of a deeper metaphysical pattern.

This possibility does not yet constitute a finished philosophy.

It offers instead a way of reading reality.

Reality is understood not as a collection of isolated objects but as an ongoing community of relationships. Not as a completed structure but as an unfinished adventure. Not as passive existence but as continual participation. Not as repetition alone but as the persistent emergence of new possibilities grounded within inherited histories.

This orientation is what we are calling Open Relational Becoming.

It remains "open" because reality continually exceeds every description we give it.

It remains "relational" because nothing exists entirely unto itself.

It remains "becoming" because reality continually generates futures not yet realized.

These three dimensions are not independent principles. They belong together. An unfinished reality naturally remains open. An open reality continually generates new relationships. Those relationships become the very means by which reality continues becoming. Each deepens the others.

Open Relational Becoming therefore should not be understood as a doctrine imposed upon reality. Rather, it is offered as a philosophical orientation arising from sustained reflection upon the recurring patterns reality itself appears to disclose.

Whether this proposal ultimately proves fruitful remains an open question.

That question cannot be settled by philosophical argument alone.

It must continually be tested against the realities explored by science, history, lived experience, ethical practice, and humanity's ongoing search for understanding.

For philosophy does not exist apart from reality.

It exists in continual conversation with it.

Perhaps that conversation itself is one expression of reality's own continuing becoming.


VI. An Unfinished Philosophy

Every philosophy eventually faces a choice. It may preserve inherited systems unchanged. It may abandon them in pursuit of novelty. Or it may inhabit them long enough to discover where they continue to illuminate reality - and where reality itself invites them to grow.

This series consciously chooses the third path.

It begins with gratitude for those thinkers who have shaped our understanding of reality, while recognizing that no philosophy remains complete simply because it has endured. Every age inherits new discoveries, new questions, and new experiences that invite renewed reflection.

This is especially true of process philosophy.

The work of Alfred North Whitehead remains one of the most remarkable metaphysical achievements of the modern era. Yet Whitehead himself understood reality as dynamic, relational, and creative. It would therefore seem contrary to the spirit of his own philosophy were later generations to preserve it unchanged simply because it has become influential.

A philosophy of becoming should itself remain capable of becoming.

This does not imply perpetual revision for its own sake.Nor does it imply abandoning philosophical discipline whenever novelty appears. Rather, it requires a posture capable of holding continuity and openness together.

We proceed, therefore, with gratitude without servility, openness without vagueness, discipline without dogmatism, and with a continuing commitment to correspond ever more faithfully with reality itself.

Such a posture recognizes that philosophy is not an end in itself. Its purpose is not merely to construct elegant systems, but to deepen humanity's participation in reality.

If reality continues disclosing new depths of coherence, relation, creativity, and meaning, then philosophy should remain willing to learn. To revise where necessary. To preserve what continues to illuminate. To release what no longer corresponds. To continue asking questions whose answers have not yet fully appeared.

Perhaps this is the deepest implication of an open and relational process metaphysics. Reality does not ask us merely to think. It invites us to participate in its continuing becoming. Our philosophies, like ourselves, remain unfinished. And perhaps that is not their weakness. Perhaps it is their greatest strength.


VII. Conclusion: The Journey Continues

This essay has not attempted to prove an open and relational process metaphysics.

Rather, it has sought to ask whether such a philosophy may correspond more faithfully to the reality we encounter than the alternatives presently available.

If reality appears unfinished, relational, continually becoming, and remarkably generative, then perhaps our philosophy should be capable of reflecting those same characteristics. Not by abandoning discipline, but by allowing inquiry to remain open wherever reality itself continues inviting exploration.

The journey we have begun is therefore not merely philosophical. It is participatory:

Ontology has taught us to recognize reality (mind).

Metaphysics now asks us to inhabit it (heart/spirit/soul).

As the series continues, this movement may be understood as a progression through increasingly deeper grammars of understanding:

Ontology describes the grammar of reality.

Metaphysics seeks to understand why that grammar speaks as it does.

Theology asks whether that grammar discloses a sacred depth.

Ethics embodies what that grammar calls us to become.

Participation returns that grammar to lived existence.

Each discipline enlarges the previous one without replacing it. Each remains accountable to reality itself. Together they invite not a closed system, but a continuing conversation. This is the beauty of an open relation process philosophy of becoming.

Accordingly, these essays are offered not as conclusions demanding assent, but as invitations to exploration, inquiry, comparison, and continual refinement.

For if reality itself remains capable of becoming, then our understanding of reality should remain capable of becoming as well.

The essays that follow will continue exploring that possibility - not in search of the final word, but in pursuit of a deeper correspondence with the reality we share.

For every horizon reached reveals another horizon beyond it.

And it is toward those ever-opening horizons that this metaphysical journey now turns.


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