When I first bled,
as the wound became a river.
This solitary act, this pained experience,
every ripple a hard memory.
Preface
Facing the Wound
At its heart, this phrase suggests that what heals us is not the avoidance of suffering, but our encounter with suffering - by facing, integrating, transfiguring, and transforming the very experience we would wish to avoid. In a culture often trained to numb itself, flee from pain, or try to dominate it (sexual addiction), this claim is not merely therapeutic; it is ontological.
To explore this idea, we must move through several interpretive frames:
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Fregean Semantics: how our language within ourselves might collapse the distance between “remedy” and “experience.”
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Psychoanalytic Theory: how our wounds become either integrated or projected onto others.
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Phenomenological and Existential Philosophy: how suffering is lived, inhabited, and given meaning.
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Metamodern Cultural Analysis: how individuals and communities navigate through the pained oscillations of hope and fragmentation.
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Whiteheadian Process Thought: how each experience participates in our own creative advance as well as the world itself.
By integrating these perspectives, we can see how wounds may become either wells of healing or weapons of harm, depending on whether they are faced or fled away from. This is not only a personal reality but a collective one with families, communities, and societies. Experiences whether good or bad which can, and well, shape ministries, movements, violence, and political orders.
Introduction
From Harm to Healing - An Experiential Metaphysics
The question of why people seek to heal or to harm is one of the oldest in human history. Philosophers, theologians, psychologists, and mystics have all wrestled with the mystery of how suffering shapes us - and why some turn their wounds into compassion, while others turn them into cruelty.
The phrase “The remedy is the experience” captures a key insight into this mystery. It recognizes that:
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Pain, once faced, can become formative for good or for ill;
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And yet, Pain, once denied, can also become very destructive.
Ministers, therapists, caregivers, and healers often enter their vocations not in spite of their wounds but because of them. Ministry, in particular, often becomes an arena where personal pain is re-encountered in the guise of service, theology, or spiritual practice. When that wound is engaged consciously, it can generate deep empathy, humility, and creative vocation.
But the same dynamic is visible on the dark side of human behavior. Individuals who enact violence - whether interpersonal or ideological - often operate from unintegrated, unresolved, suffering, attempting to reclaim agency or suppress vulnerability through domination, control, or scapegoating.
The wound that is not transformed is inevitably transmitted.
Philosophically, this reflects an ontological bifurcation point. Each moment of suffering becomes a processual occasion in which novelty may emerge - either as healing (a wellhead of nurturing) or harm (an evolving weapon of destruction). Whiteheadian process thought gives us a powerful vocabulary to describe this:
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Prehension of the wound,
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Integration or negative prehension,
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Subjective aim, and
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Creative advance toward new possibilities.
Psychoanalysis, meanwhile, provides the clinical language of repression, transference, and projection. Phenomenology grounds this in lived experience; existentialism gives it ethical weight; metamodernism situates it within our cultural moment of oscillation, precarity, and shared longing for meaning.
This is not simply a private dynamic which inflicts only the wounded. No, wounds scale: personal pain can become collective ideology, and, collective trauma can become structural violence. But the reverse is also true: personal healing can ripple outward, shaping communities of care, faith, and justice.
The remedy is the experience because it is only through turning toward the wound that individuals and societies can generate new patterns of personal and corporate becoming.
I. A Cumulative Examination
1. Phenomenological Layer - Healing through Living
We often want remedies to remove pain, uncertainty, or loss. But real healing often occurs inside the experience — by feeling grief rather than suppressing it, walking through fear rather than circumventing it, enduring uncertainty rather than forcing clarity.
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The experience itself becomes the teacher, and the lived encounter provides what abstract explanations cannot.
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In this view, discomfort isn’t something to be eliminated first; it is the path of transformation.
2. Process-Philosophical Layer - Becoming through Event
In Whiteheadian terms, every experience is an actual occasion — an event that carries the possibility of creative advance into novelty.
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What remedies us is not escaping the event but ingesting it into our becoming, letting it reconstitute who we are.
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“The remedy” is not external to the process; it is the process itself unfolding.
3. Psychological Layer — Integration Instead of Avoidance
Avoiding pain, trauma, or difficulty often prolongs suffering. But allowing ourselves to fully experience and integrate these states helps them lose their power over us.
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The “remedy” is not forgetting but absorbing and reconfiguring the meaning of the experience in one’s life story.
4. Spiritual Layer — Presence as Medicine
Many wisdom traditions (Buddhist, Christian contemplative, Indigenous, Stoic, etc.) emphasize presence.
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Healing is found not in the avoidance of suffering but in meeting it with full presence.
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The moment itself — fully lived — is sacramental.
5. Poetic Layer — The Bitter Becomes the Balm
There is a paradox here: the thing that wounds can also heal.
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Grief can open the heart.
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Loss can teach love.
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Failure can form wisdom.
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The poison, when metabolized, becomes the medicine.
In short: The phrase means that the path to healing is not elsewhere - not in denial of the event(s), not in shortcuts towards healing or avoidance - but in inhabiting the moment fully and letting the experience itself reshape us.
II. The PsychoAnalytic Approach
1. Repression and Return of the Repressed (Freudian frame)
In classical Freudian analysis, symptoms arise when unconscious experiences, affects, or desires are repressed because they are unbearable, shameful, or conflict with the ego.
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When these experiences remain unconscious, they return indirectly — as anxiety, neuroses, compulsions, dreams, or somatic symptoms.
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A “remedy” isn’t achieved by erasing the symptom but by allowing the repressed experience to return to consciousness in a tolerable, symbolic form.
👉 So, “the remedy is the experience” means:
The healing comes not from avoiding the painful unconscious content but from re-experiencing and working through it (what Freud called “Durcharbeiten” — working-through).
2. Symbolization and Integration (Winnicott, Bion)
Winnicott and Bion emphasize the importance of symbolization and the containing function of the analytic relationship.
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Trauma or psychic pain often exists before it can be put into words — as unformulated experience.
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The analytic space allows the patient to experience again (within a holding environment) what was once overwhelming.
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This time, it can be symbolized, thought, and integrated.
👉 The experience itself — once unbearable — becomes the very site of healing when held, articulated, and given meaning.
3. The Real and Traversing Fantasy (Lacanian frame)
Lacan differentiates between:
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The Imaginary (the ego’s self-image and defenses),
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The Symbolic (language, law, structure), and
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The Real (what resists symbolization, the traumatic kernel).
Neurosis develops partly because we circumvent the Real through defensive fantasies.
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Psychoanalysis aims to help the subject traverse their fantasy and confront the Real of their experience directly.
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The “remedy” is not providing comfort or a new fantasy but encountering the Real, allowing it to be integrated into one’s subjective structure.
👉 So the “remedy is the experience” here means: healing occurs in the act of facing the Real — the thing that was repressed, disavowed, or foreclosed.
4. Repetition and Working Through (Freud and beyond)
Freud observed that patients don’t remember their trauma at first; they repeat it — in symptoms, dreams, or transference.
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But through the analytic process, this repetition becomes conscious reenactment, and eventually working through.
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The repetition isn’t an obstacle; it is the means through which the psyche heals itself.
👉 Thus: the “remedy” is in the very re-experiencing of what was once buried, this time with awareness.
5. Transference as Therapeutic Experience
Psychoanalysis works through transference — the patient relives old emotional patterns in the relationship with the analyst.
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This isn’t just “talking about” past wounds but living them in the present analytic space.
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That lived experience allows old patterns to be seen, interpreted, and finally loosened.
👉 Again, the curative factor isn’t external advice — it’s the experience of reliving, recognizing, and integrating what was once unconscious.
Summary in Psychoanalytic Language
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Symptom = unintegrated experience
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Cure = returning to the experience in a symbolic, relational, and tolerable way
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Mechanism = working-through, traversing fantasy, integrating the Real, symbolization
So when we say “the remedy is the experience,” we mean:
The path to psychic healing does not lie outside the wound but through its re-experiencing in a safe and symbolic way.
It is not escape but encounter — not erasure but integration.
III. The Psychology of Language: Fregean Semantics
1. Reference (Bedeutung): the concrete experience
In Fregean terms, the reference of a phrase is what it points to in the world — the actual entity, event, or state of affairs.
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Here, “the remedy” doesn’t refer to something external (a pill, solution, or abstraction).
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It points back to the very experience itself — the lived event.
So:
Reference: the actual experience itself is the remedy.
2. Sense (Sinn): the mode of presentation
The sense of a phrase is how the reference is presented to the mind — its conceptual framing.
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Normally, “remedy” and “experience” are understood as separate: one cures, the other wounds.
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This sentence reconfigures their sense: it presents experience itself as the curative agent.
So:
Sense: the curative function is not outside the event, but in the way the experience is apprehended.
3. Cognitive Value: why the statement matters
Frege noted that different senses referring to the same reference can have different cognitive value — they can change how we understand reality.
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“The remedy is the experience” changes how we think about suffering and healing.
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Instead of “A heals B,” the sentence identifies A with B, collapsing the distance between problem and cure.
This shift in cognitive value is what makes the statement powerful.
4. Thought (Gedanke): the propositional content
For Frege, the thought is the objective content of the sentence — what can be true or false.
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The thought here is: “What remedies a wound is the very experience of the wound itself.”
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Its truth depends on whether lived experience indeed provides the transformation it names.
Summary in Fregean terms:
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Reference: the experience itself.
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Sense: “remedy” and “experience” are presented as identical.
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Cognitive value: shifts perception from external cure to internal process.
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Thought: a propositional claim about healing through lived experience.
IV. How is Friege like or unlike Psychoanalytic Analysis?
1. Starting Point
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Frege:
Begins with language and logic. He asks: What is the sense and reference of a statement? How does meaning work objectively? -
Psychoanalysis:
Begins with the subject and the unconscious. It asks: What is the lived, often repressed experience behind the words? How does meaning affect psychic life?
✅ So Frege looks at the structure of the statement.
✅ Psychoanalysis looks at the structure of the self speaking or hearing it.
2. What “Remedy” and “Experience” Mean
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Frege:
“Remedy” and “experience” are two linguistic expressions with distinct senses and references, and the sentence collapses them into an identity of reference: the experience is itself the remedy. The power lies in the semantic shift. -
Psychoanalysis:
“Remedy” points to psychic healing; “experience” points to the repressed or overwhelming event. The sentence is read clinically: healing occurs by re-living and integrating the experience (e.g., working-through).
✅ Frege is interested in how language signifies this identity.
✅ Psychoanalysis is interested in how the subject lives through it.
3. Role of the Subject
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Frege:
The subject’s emotions are irrelevant to meaning. The proposition stands or falls by its logical content. -
Psychoanalysis:
Meaning is inseparable from the subject’s unconscious, desire, fantasy, and transference. The phrase resonates because it touches psychic truth.
✅ Frege abstracts from the subject.
✅ Psychoanalysis centers the subject.
4. Mechanism of “Remedy”
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Frege:
The statement’s cognitive value shifts the hearer’s understanding: the meaning changes, not the psyche itself. -
Psychoanalysis:
The statement points to a transformative process: re-experiencing trauma, symbolizing it, integrating it — which leads to actual psychic change.
✅ Frege: conceptual clarification.
✅ Psychoanalysis: experiential transformation.
5. Truth vs. Meaning
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Frege:
The proposition has an objective truth value — it can be evaluated logically. -
Psychoanalysis:
The “truth” here is subjective, lived, unconscious — a truth revealed in experience, not just stated.
✅ Frege: external, logical truth.
✅ Psychoanalysis: internal, experiential truth.
In Sum
| Aspect | Fregean Analysis | Psychoanalytic Analysis |
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| Focus | Language and meaning | Subject and unconscious |
| Key mechanism | Sense–reference identity, cognitive value | Repression, return, working-through |
| Subject’s role | Minimal / irrelevant | Central, affective |
| Nature of remedy | Conceptual clarity | Psychic integration and healing |
| Truth | Objective, logical | Subjective, experiential |
Bridging them:
- Frege explains what the phrase means in language;
- Psychoanalysis explains why the phrase matters to a human being.
V. The Philosophical Examination of Pain & Healing
1. Phenomenological Layer - The Lived Encounter
In phenomenology (Husserl, Merleau-Ponty), meaning does not exist “out there” but arises in the lived, embodied encounter between subject and world.
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Experience is primary. Concepts, remedies, or explanations are secondary abstractions.
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Pain, grief, love, loss — these are not simply states to be fixed, but fields of consciousness through which reality is disclosed.
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To say “the remedy is the experience” here means:
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Healing is found within the lived moment itself, not after it.
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Meaning is constituted in the act of living, not in retrospective or external solutions.
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The “remedy” is not applied to experience; it emerges from experiencing itself more fully, with presence, intentionality, and openness.
2. Existential Layer — Freedom, Anguish, and Becoming
In existential thought (Kierkegaard, Heidegger, Sartre, de Beauvoir, Camus), human beings are thrown into situations they did not choose — but they must respond.
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Anguish, despair, absurdity, finitude — these are structural to human existence.
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“Remedy” is not a return to certainty but a way of being with uncertainty.
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When the phrase says “the remedy is the experience”, it reflects:
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The only “way out” of despair is through it.
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The act of living one’s anguish authentically — not bypassing it — becomes the ground of transformation.
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Existence is self-transcending: the self is forged in the crucible of what it endures.
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👉 It’s not the avoidance of pain that saves us, but the courage to inhabit it.
3. Metamodern Layer — Oscillation, Complexity, and Integration
Metamodernism (as a cultural sensibility after postmodernism) oscillates between modern hope and postmodern irony — between sincerity and skepticism, despair and reconstruction.
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Modernity sought solutions.
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Postmodernity deconstructed them.
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Metamodernity inhabits the in-between — a world where experience is fragmented, globalized, digital, and yet deeply personal.
Within this condition:
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“The remedy is the experience” suggests not a final answer but an ongoing, participatory practice of meaning-making.
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Healing is not delivered top-down by grand narratives nor dissolved into irony — it arises in shared, reflexive, relational experiences.
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This aligns with metamodern values:
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✨ Sincerity without naïveté
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🌀 Hope tempered by awareness
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🤝 Collective co-creation of meaning
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👉 Here, the “experience” is both personal and systemic — it’s the individual and collective act of leaning into complexity, oscillating between pain and possibility, and finding remedy in the very act of participating in reality.
In Summary
| Dimension | What It Emphasizes | How “the remedy is the experience” functions |
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| Phenomenological | Embodied, lived immediacy | Healing arises within direct experience, not outside it |
| Existential | Human freedom, finitude, courage | Transformation comes from inhabiting rather than avoiding anguish |
| Metamodern | Oscillation, reflexivity, complexity | Remedy is a participatory, relational, evolving process — not a fixed cure |
Coda:
- In a metamodern world, experience is not merely endured or escaped - it is inhabited, interpreted, and co-created.
- The remedy is not external salvation but the act of being present within the flux - a shared becoming.
VIa. Positive Contextual Applications
1. Psychological Lens - Healing through Vocation
Many ministers enter their vocation with a personal history of pain, loss, or longing for meaning. This can include:
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Childhood trauma or neglect
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Early experiences of divine or communal rejection
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Unresolved grief, shame, or spiritual injury
In such cases, ministry can serve as a symbolic site of remedy.
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Preaching, caring for others, or “being close to God” becomes a way of re-experiencing the wounds of the past but under different conditions.
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If those wounds are engaged honestly, this can be profoundly transformative.
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But if they remain unexamined, they can produce reactive leadership: controlling, moralizing, or unconsciously repeating harm.
👉 In psychoanalytic terms, ministry often becomes a transference field where one unconsciously seeks repair for personal injury.
2. Existential Lens - Meaning Made Through Encounter
Existentially, we are beings who make meaning from what has hurt us most. Many ministers:
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Encountered pain early in life, and
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Responded by turning toward the suffering of others.
This is not necessarily pathological. It can be an authentic existential response — transforming anguish into service. But:
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If it’s a flight from their own pain, ministry becomes a defense mechanism.
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If it’s a conscious encounter with pain, ministry becomes a site of genuine presence and compassion.
👉 This is exactly where “the remedy is the experience” fits:
One finds remedy not by denying one’s wounds but by living them more consciously through shared human experience.
3. Metamodern Lens - Holding Wound and Calling Together
In metamodern culture, where we no longer fully trust absolute certainties yet yearn for sincere connection, many ministers stand in this in-between:
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Partly seeking personal healing,
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Partly trying to hold others,
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Partly trying to rebuild meaning in a fragmented world.
This position can be deeply generative — ministers who know their own wounds often create more honest, relational, compassionate communities.
But it can also amplify unhealed dynamics, especially when leadership becomes a stage for unresolved pain rather than a place of shared becoming.
👉 Metamodern ministry at its healthiest involves oscillation: holding both the wound and the calling, neither romanticizing nor repressing either.
Summary
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Many ministers do indeed enter ministry as a response to wounds.
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This can be healing when they face the experience consciously — the wound becomes a teacher.
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It can be harmful when the wound is denied, projected, or moralized.
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“The remedy is the experience” here means: the wound itself, when faced honestly, becomes the source of compassionate power rather than control.
“Those who minister out of their wounds can become wells of living water — or build walls to protect the wound. The difference lies in whether the experience is faced, not fled.”
VIb. Negative Contextual Applications
1. Psychological Frame — Wounds That Repeat Themselves
In psychoanalytic and trauma theory, unintegrated wounds do not simply disappear; they seek expression.
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If they are not faced internally, they often surface externally through repetition, projection, or acting out.
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Violence is frequently the externalization of interior suffering.
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The abused becomes abuser.
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The shamed becomes shamer.
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The powerless seeks power through domination.
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The paradox:
The violent act is a false “remedy” — it tries to relieve pain through control or harm.
But the real remedy would be to face the original experience itself — to grieve, integrate, or heal what was fractured.
2. Existential Frame — Refusing the Abyss
Existential thinkers like Kierkegaard, Camus, and Sartre understood violence (in both personal and political forms) as often rooted in a refusal to face one’s own void or finitude.
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When one cannot bear their anguish, they may externalize it through cruelty, control, or ideology.
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The Other becomes the mirror for what one cannot face in oneself.
Violence, in this sense, is an ontological flight — a refusal to let the wound speak inwardly.
The remedy would have been to experience one’s own abyss — not to weaponize it against others.
3. Metamodern Frame — Complexity, Fragmentation, and Projection
In a metamodern society:
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People live amid intense personal dislocation, cultural dissonance, and structural inequities.
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This creates fertile ground for projective violence — often masked as ideology, nationalism, or moral righteousness.
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Violence in this sense is a collective acting out of unresolved trauma, both personal and historical.
Where a metamodern response might oscillate between irony and hope, violence often collapses the oscillation: it chooses certainty, power, or scapegoating over vulnerability.
4. Violence as Inverted Healing Attempt
It is often the case that:
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Violence tries to reclaim power where powerlessness was once felt.
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It tries to silence pain by inflicting pain elsewhere.
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It tries to regain control where helplessness reigned.
But these are inverted attempts at remedy.
The true “remedy is the experience” — not the projection.
Healing comes not from harming others, but from turning toward one’s own wound with honesty.
In Summary
| Pattern | Ministers (Wounded Healers) | Violent Actors (Wounded Harming) |
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| Inner wound | Becomes site of service, care, or faith | Becomes site of projection or domination |
| Response to pain | Inward integration (potentially) | Outward displacement |
| Relation to others | Co-suffering, accompaniment | Scapegoating, aggression |
| Remedy | Facing the experience | Avoiding the experience through control |
| Metamodern context | Oscillation, holding complexity | Collapse into certainty or power |
The Weapon
Not through lips, but through fists and flags,
through walls built from silence and fury.
Names were forgotten, enemies invented.
The ache inside became an empire outside.
the wound waited like a child in the dark,
not hurled.
🕊️ “Every wound seeks expression. Some turn their wound into a well. Others turn it into a weapon. The difference is whether the pain is faced, or passed along.”
This, in a way, is the moral and metaphysical weight of your insight:
Many forms of violence are not born of power, but of disavowed pain.
VII. Relating Process Thought
1. Process Grounding - Experience as the Core of Reality
For Whitehead, reality is not made of static substances but events of experience.
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Every entity is a moment of becoming, prehending (taking in) what came before and adding something new.
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Healing and harm are not ontological categories but processual trajectories within the same experiential field.
👉 Thus, “the remedy is the experience” fits naturally into process metaphysics:
Experience itself is the medium of transformation. What is faced, integrated, and re-formed becomes creative advance; what is disavowed becomes distortion and projection.
2. The Wound as an Actual Occasion
When a person undergoes wounding — trauma, shame, rejection — that experience doesn’t disappear.
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It is prehended into the ongoing stream of becoming.
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If the subject integrates it (opens to its data, allows novelty), it can be transformed into compassion, insight, or resilience.
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If the subject rejects or represses it, the wound persists as negative prehension — something excluded but still shaping future becomings in distorted ways.
✅ This is where ministry and violence part ways.
Both may originate from the same wound.
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One integrates → becomes a well.
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One projects → becomes a weapon.
3. Escalation Trajectory - From Wound to Well or Weapon
Let’s trace this processual escalation step by step:
| Stage | Process Moment | Healing (Well) | Harm (Weapon) |
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| 1. Event | A wound occurs (trauma, shame, rejection). | – | – |
| 2. Prehension | The subject takes in the event as part of its becoming. | Openly receives the data of the wound. | Rejects or represses the wound. |
| 3. Integration / Negative Prehension | How the experience is held or excluded. | Allows feeling, memory, and meaning to emerge. | Blocks, denies, or projects the experience outward. |
| 4. Subjective Aim | How the self orients toward the future. | Desires transformation — to turn pain into connection. | Desires control — to offload pain onto others. |
| 5. Creative Advance | What novelty emerges. | Compassion, vocation, solidarity, generativity. | Violence, ideology, domination, repetition of harm. |
👉 In process terms, this isn’t deterministic but conditional: each moment is an opportunity for creative re-constitution of the past.
4. Minister and Violent Actor - Two Divergent Becomings
Both the minister and the violent actor begin with pain.
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One enters ministry to find healing through others, oscillating between wound and service.
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The other externalizes pain through harm, control, or ideology.
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Both are processual subjects enacting different integrations of experience.
The key divergence is not the presence of pain but how the experience is engaged.
The wound that is faced becomes a well;
the wound that is avoided becomes a weapon.
5. Metamodern Context - Oscillation and Collective Becoming
In our metamodern world:
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Personal wounds are amplified by cultural fragmentation, political polarization, and digital intensification.
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Violence becomes not only personal but systemic, embedded in narratives, ideologies, and technologies.
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Healing must therefore also be collective — communities learning to face their shared wounds together rather than project them outward.
Process thought is uniquely suited to this because it:
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Sees every subject as relational (no isolated selves).
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Emphasizes creative advance (the future is not fixed).
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Understands evil as misrelation — distorted or blocked prehension — not ontological necessity.
6. Theological Arc - God as Companion of the Wounded
In process theology:
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God does not control outcomes but lures toward healing.
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God is the fellow sufferer who understands — the divine lure within each occasion, inviting transformation rather than projection.
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The divine response to violence is not coercion but participatory presence.
This means:
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God is in the wound, not above it.
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God’s “remedy” is the lived experience transformed from within, not imposed from outside.
Escalation Summary (Process Frame)
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Wound arises → enters the process field.
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Subject prehends → either integrates (healing) or represses (harm).
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Creative advance → either generates new relational goods or repeats/project harm.
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Communities amplify → wounds can scale to social and systemic violence.
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Divine lure → invites transformation at each juncture, not through force but through possibility.
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Remedy = the lived and integrated experience itself, not external erasure.
Closing Thought:
“The remedy is the experience” is not a moral slogan but a metaphysical reality. Every wound is a node in the creative advance of the world. Whether it becomes well or weapon depends on how it is taken up in the next moment of becoming. Healing is nothing other than the transfiguration of pain through presence - the deepest rhythm of a processive cosmos.
Diagram: Escalation Path of Wounded Experience
This is not a deterministic model.
At each juncture, transformation remains possible. That is the heart of process philosophy: even distorted experiences can be re-integrated into new patterns of becoming.
Conclusion
The Wound That Becomes a Well, or a Weapon
In process-relational terms, every wound is an actual occasion in the universe’s unfolding. It is never inert. It is taken up into new occasions through prehension and interpretation. The question is not whether the wound will shape the future — but how.
When the wound is faced, felt, and integrated, it can open into deeper empathy, creating spaces of care, compassion, and creativity. Ministers and healers who work from their pain with honesty often become well-springs of communal grace.
When the wound is denied, repressed, or projected, it becomes a weapon, breeding cycles of harm, resentment, or ideological violence. Many forms of cruelty arise not from strength but from disavowed fragility.
When wounds are collectively mirrored, they can shape entire cultures — for good or ill.
This insight carries immense ethical and theological weight. Process theology suggests that God is not outside this field, but within it, as the divine lure toward healing. God does not overwrite the wound but moves with it, always offering the possibility of transformation without coercion.
In a metamodern world, where certainty has fractured but hope remains, the task is not to bypass pain but to inhabit it wisely. Our cultural maturity may depend on learning to hold collective wounds with honesty rather than weaponizing them into new fundamentalisms.
✨ “The remedy is the experience” is not a sentimental line; it is a processual truth.
Every wound participates in the world’s becoming.
Whether that participation heals or harms depends on how we meet it — individually and together.
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4. Metamodernism & Cultural Analysis
Vermeulen, Timotheus & van den Akker, Robin. Notes on Metamodernism. (2010).
Gibbons, Alison. Metamodernism: Historicity, Affect, and Depth after Postmodernism. (2020).
Hanzi Freinacht. The Listening Society. (2017).
Alexander, Jeffrey. Cultural Trauma and Collective Identity. (2004).
Taylor, Charles. A Secular Age. (2007).
Bauman, Zygmunt. Liquid Modernity. (2000).
5. Language, Meaning, and Frege
Frege, Gottlob. On Sense and Reference. (1892).
Frege, Gottlob. The Foundations of Arithmetic. (1884).
Dummett, Michael. Frege: Philosophy of Language. (1973).
Beaney, Michael. The Frege Reader. (1997).
6. Interdisciplinary & Integrative Works
Frankl, Viktor. Man’s Search for Meaning. (1946).
hooks, bell. All About Love: New Visions. (2000).
Palmer, Parker J. Let Your Life Speak. (2000).
Neumann, Erich. Depth Psychology and a New Ethic. (1949).
Tutu, Desmond. No Future Without Forgiveness. (1999).
Moltmann, Jürgen. The Crucified God. (1972).
Kearney, Richard. The God Who May Be: A Hermeneutics of Religion. (2001).
