Quotes & Sayings


We, and creation itself, actualize the possibilities of the God who sustains the world, towards becoming in the world in a fuller, more deeper way. - R.E. Slater

There is urgency in coming to see the world as a web of interrelated processes of which we are integral parts, so that all of our choices and actions have [consequential effects upon] the world around us. - Process Metaphysician Alfred North Whitehead

Kurt Gödel's Incompleteness Theorem says (i) all closed systems are unprovable within themselves and, that (ii) all open systems are rightly understood as incomplete. - R.E. Slater

The most true thing about you is what God has said to you in Christ, "You are My Beloved." - Tripp Fuller

The God among us is the God who refuses to be God without us, so great is God's Love. - Tripp Fuller

According to some Christian outlooks we were made for another world. Perhaps, rather, we were made for this world to recreate, reclaim, redeem, and renew unto God's future aspiration by the power of His Spirit. - R.E. Slater

Our eschatological ethos is to love. To stand with those who are oppressed. To stand against those who are oppressing. It is that simple. Love is our only calling and Christian Hope. - R.E. Slater

Secularization theory has been massively falsified. We don't live in an age of secularity. We live in an age of explosive, pervasive religiosity... an age of religious pluralism. - Peter L. Berger

Exploring the edge of life and faith in a post-everything world. - Todd Littleton

I don't need another reason to believe, your love is all around for me to see. – Anon

Thou art our need; and in giving us more of thyself thou givest us all. - Khalil Gibran, Prayer XXIII

Be careful what you pretend to be. You become what you pretend to be. - Kurt Vonnegut

Religious beliefs, far from being primary, are often shaped and adjusted by our social goals. - Jim Forest

We become who we are by what we believe and can justify. - R.E. Slater

People, even more than things, need to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. – Anon

Certainly, God's love has made fools of us all. - R.E. Slater

An apocalyptic Christian faith doesn't wait for Jesus to come, but for Jesus to become in our midst. - R.E. Slater

Christian belief in God begins with the cross and resurrection of Jesus, not with rational apologetics. - Eberhard Jüngel, Jürgen Moltmann

Our knowledge of God is through the 'I-Thou' encounter, not in finding God at the end of a syllogism or argument. There is a grave danger in any Christian treatment of God as an object. The God of Jesus Christ and Scripture is irreducibly subject and never made as an object, a force, a power, or a principle that can be manipulated. - Emil Brunner

“Ehyeh Asher Ehyeh” means "I will be that who I have yet to become." - God (Ex 3.14) or, conversely, “I AM who I AM Becoming.”

Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy. - Thomas Merton

The church is God's world-changing social experiment of bringing unlikes and differents to the Eucharist/Communion table to share life with one another as a new kind of family. When this happens, we show to the world what love, justice, peace, reconciliation, and life together is designed by God to be. The church is God's show-and-tell for the world to see how God wants us to live as a blended, global, polypluralistic family united with one will, by one Lord, and baptized by one Spirit. – Anon

The cross that is planted at the heart of the history of the world cannot be uprooted. - Jacques Ellul

The Unity in whose loving presence the universe unfolds is inside each person as a call to welcome the stranger, protect animals and the earth, respect the dignity of each person, think new thoughts, and help bring about ecological civilizations. - John Cobb & Farhan A. Shah

If you board the wrong train it is of no use running along the corridors of the train in the other direction. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer

God's justice is restorative rather than punitive; His discipline is merciful rather than punishing; His power is made perfect in weakness; and His grace is sufficient for all. – Anon

Our little [biblical] systems have their day; they have their day and cease to be. They are but broken lights of Thee, and Thou, O God art more than they. - Alfred Lord Tennyson

We can’t control God; God is uncontrollable. God can’t control us; God’s love is uncontrolling! - Thomas Jay Oord

Life in perspective but always in process... as we are relational beings in process to one another, so life events are in process in relation to each event... as God is to Self, is to world, is to us... like Father, like sons and daughters, like events... life in process yet always in perspective. - R.E. Slater

To promote societal transition to sustainable ways of living and a global society founded on a shared ethical framework which includes respect and care for the community of life, ecological integrity, universal human rights, respect for diversity, economic justice, democracy, and a culture of peace. - The Earth Charter Mission Statement

Christian humanism is the belief that human freedom, individual conscience, and unencumbered rational inquiry are compatible with the practice of Christianity or even intrinsic in its doctrine. It represents a philosophical union of Christian faith and classical humanist principles. - Scott Postma

It is never wise to have a self-appointed religious institution determine a nation's moral code. The opportunities for moral compromise and failure are high; the moral codes and creeds assuredly racist, discriminatory, or subjectively and religiously defined; and the pronouncement of inhumanitarian political objectives quite predictable. - R.E. Slater

God's love must both center and define the Christian faith and all religious or human faiths seeking human and ecological balance in worlds of subtraction, harm, tragedy, and evil. - R.E. Slater

In Whitehead’s process ontology, we can think of the experiential ground of reality as an eternal pulse whereby what is objectively public in one moment becomes subjectively prehended in the next, and whereby the subject that emerges from its feelings then perishes into public expression as an object (or “superject”) aiming for novelty. There is a rhythm of Being between object and subject, not an ontological division. This rhythm powers the creative growth of the universe from one occasion of experience to the next. This is the Whiteheadian mantra: “The many become one and are increased by one.” - Matthew Segall

Without Love there is no Truth. And True Truth is always Loving. There is no dichotomy between these terms but only seamless integration. This is the premier centering focus of a Processual Theology of Love. - R.E. Slater

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Note: Generally I do not respond to commentary. I may read the comments but wish to reserve my time to write (or write from the comments I read). Instead, I'd like to see our community help one another and in the helping encourage and exhort each of us towards Christian love in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior. - re slater

Monday, June 29, 2026

Myth and Reality: The Stories by Which We Live (4)



ESSAY FOUR
Narrative, Symbol, Myth, and Transformative Imagination

Reality → Ontology → Metaphysics → Theology → Ethics → Participation

Ontology disciplines metaphysics lest it become mere speculation.
Metaphysics enlarges ontology lest description never asks why.

Myth and Reality

The Stories by Which We Live

Metaphysics IV - Narrative Before Philosophy

by R.E. Slater and ChatGPT


We tell ourselves stories in order to live.
- Joan Didion

Stories help broken people remain human
without denying the brokenness of the world.
- R. E. Slater

Reality is encountered. Stories are created. Myths are shared.
Metaphysics asks why stories continue shaping who we become.
- R. E. Slater

Which stories help broken people remain human
without denying the brokenness of the world?
These are the stories we must preserve.
- R.E. Slater


Essay Outline
Preface - The Language of Story
I. Before Philosophy, There Was Story
II. When Stories Become Worlds
III. Why Broken Worlds Need Stories
IV. Humanity's Enduring Stories
V. Conclusion: Every Life is a Story
Bibliography


Preface - The Language of Story

Human beings do not begin life as philosophers. We begin as children.

Long before we ask what reality is, we discover whether the world appears welcoming or frightening, whether promises are kept or broken, whether love remains or disappears, whether tomorrow is greeted with anticipation or fear. Before we possess concepts, we possess experiences. Before we formulate ideas, we inherit stories.

Those stories become the earliest architecture of our lives.

Some arise from ordinary moments around family tables and cherished events. Others emerge through hardship, migration, illness, disappointment, sacrifice, or survival. A grandmother's kindness, a father's absence, a community's resilience, a nation's history, a people's exile, or a civilization's hopes - all gradually become narratives by which human beings learn to interpret themselves and the world they inhabit.

As these narratives are shared across families, cultures, and generations, they become something larger than individual memory. They become symbols, traditions, and myths - not myths as falsehoods, but as enduring stories that preserve identity, communicate meaning, and orient communities within realities that often exceed explanation. Every civilization carries such narratives. Every religion preserves them. Every family remembers them. Every person lives within them.

Yet stories do more than preserve memory. They help us endure realities that would otherwise overwhelm us.

Life is often beautiful, but it is also marked by suffering, cruelty, injustice, grief, failure, displacement, and loss. Children are born into circumstances they did not choose. Communities endure war, famine, oppression, poverty, and ecological devastation. Individuals experience betrayal, loneliness, depression, illness, and the quiet burdens that rarely become public. No philosophy worthy of reality can ignore these experiences, for they belong as much to existence as joy, discovery, and hope.

The question, then, is not whether human beings will live by stories. We always do. The deeper question is this:

Which stories help broken people remain human without denying the brokenness of the world?

This question leads us beyond literature, beyond religion, and even beyond philosophy. It invites us to examine why certain narratives continue to shape persons, cultures, and civilizations across centuries, and why they possess such remarkable power to sustain hope, challenge injustice, resist despair, and awaken imagination.

The essays that follow do not seek to determine which stories are historically greatest, nor to privilege one tradition over another. Rather, they ask a more fundamental metaphysical question: why narrative itself appears woven into the structure of human becoming.

If ontology asks what reality must be, and metaphysics asks why reality unfolds as it does, then narrative asks how finite beings first learn to inhabit that reality.

Here, before metaphysics becomes formal philosophy once again, we pause to listen to humanity's oldest language:

the language of story.


I. Before Philosophy, There Was Story

Every human life begins within a story already in progress.

No one chooses the family into which they are born, the language they first hear, the customs that surround their childhood, or the history that has already shaped the world awaiting their arrival. Before we speak our first words, we have already entered relationships. Before we ask our first questions, we have already begun receiving answers from the world around us. Long before we become conscious participants in our own lives, we are being formed by stories that began long before our birth.

Some of these stories are deeply personal. A parent faithfully returns home each evening. A grandparent tells stories around the dinner table. A neighborhood becomes a place of belonging. A teacher encourages curiosity. A friend remains loyal during difficult years. Quietly, almost unnoticed, these experiences become the earliest narratives by which reality is interpreted. The world appears trustworthy. Love appears possible. Hope appears reasonable.

Yet many lives begin differently.

Some children inherit abandonment before security. Others encounter violence before tenderness, neglect before affection, fear before trust. Many grow up amid abuse, violence, poverty, addiction, discrimination, war, or instability. Others experience chronic illness, disability, displacement, or the slow erosion of hope beneath circumstances they neither created nor deserved. Their earliest stories become equally powerful, though profoundly different. Reality may appear unpredictable. Relationships become uncertain. Tomorrow becomes something to survive rather than anticipate.

Neither childhood experience begins with philosophy.

Neither childhood possesses a metaphysical system.

Yet each has already begun constructing an understanding of reality.

This observation reaches far beyond childhood. Throughout our lives we continue gathering experiences into meaningful patterns. Success and failure, friendship and betrayal, birth and death, joy and grief gradually become more than isolated events. We arrange them into narratives because the human mind naturally seeks coherence. We ask not merely, "What happened?" but "What does this mean?" and "How shall I now live?"

In this sense, stories are not escapes from reality. They are among our earliest attempts to inhabit it.

Only much later do philosophers ask whether these stories correspond to reality itself. Yet philosophy does not replace narrative. It grows from it. Even the most disciplined metaphysical inquiry begins with a human being whose life has already been shaped by memory, relationship, imagination, suffering, and hope.

Story, therefore, is not the opposite of philosophy.

It is the soil from which philosophy first grows.


II. When Stories Become Worlds

Stories rarely remain private.

They are shared around family tables, preserved within communities, retold across generations, and eventually woven into the identity of entire peoples. What begins as personal memory gradually becomes collective memory. Individual experiences are enlarged into narratives that explain where a people has come from, what they have endured, what they value, and what future they hope to build together.

It is here that story begins to assume another form.

We call these larger narratives myths.

In contemporary conversation the word myth often suggests fiction, illusion, or something simply untrue. Yet this understanding misses the far older and richer role myths have played throughout human history. A myth is not first a false story. It is an enduring story through which a community interprets reality, preserves identity, and communicates meaning across generations. Whether every event occurred precisely as remembered is often less significant than the deeper questions the narrative continues asking about life, suffering, courage, hope, justice, mercy, and belonging.

Every civilization possesses such stories.

Families preserve stories of sacrifice, perseverance, and survival. Nations remember stories of founding, struggle, victory, and failure. Indigenous peoples carry narratives that bind communities to land, ancestors, and creation. Religions preserve stories of calling, liberation, exile, enlightenment, covenant, pilgrimage, incarnation, compassion, and renewal. Even modern secular societies generate narratives of progress, freedom, revolution, scientific discovery, democracy, and human rights. None of these stories simply describe events. They orient lives.

In this sense, myths become humanity's shared memory.

They remind communities who they believe themselves to be. They preserve values worth remembering and warnings against mistakes worth avoiding. They inspire courage during seasons of uncertainty while offering continuity across generations. They become reservoirs of identity during times of profound disruption.

Yet myths possess another, more complicated power.

Because they shape identity, they may also become instruments of exclusion. Stories capable of preserving compassion may also justify conquest. Narratives that once inspired liberation may later be used to defend oppression. Every civilization therefore inherits not only stories of hope but stories capable of nurturing fear, pride, domination, or resentment.

The question is never whether human beings will live by myths.

The question is whether the myths by which we live continue opening us toward greater participation in becoming reality or gradually close us within worlds of our own making of un-becoming.

For this reason, myths deserve neither naïve acceptance nor easy dismissal. They deserve careful listening. For beneath every enduring myth lies a civilization asking the same questions every human heart eventually asks:

Who are we?

Where have we come from?

Why do we suffer?

What may we hope for?

How shall we live together?

And perhaps most fundamentally:

What kind of reality makes such hope possible?


III. Why Broken Worlds Need Stories

Every generation inherits a world already marked by both extraordinary beauty and profound brokenness.

No child enters a perfect world.

Some are welcomed into loving homes where trust is learned naturally. Others inherit violence before tenderness, fear before security, abandonment before belonging. Many will know grief long before they understand death, disappointment long before they understand hope, and injustice long before they possess words like justice or mercy.

Nor does adulthood remove these realities.

Wars continue to scatter families across continents. Famine leaves entire populations searching for food where none should have to search. Poverty confines millions to lives shaped by circumstances they did not create. Illness weakens bodies. Depression burdens minds. Addiction fractures relationships. Ecological degradation poisons the environments upon which communities depend. Political power too often serves itself before those most in need. Even where material abundance exists, loneliness, anxiety, and quiet despair frequently remain.

Reality, as we encounter it, is neither wholly beautiful nor wholly tragic.

It is both.

No responsible metaphysics can begin with beauty while ignoring suffering. Nor can it begin with suffering while denying the remarkable capacities for compassion, creativity, forgiveness, and renewal that also belong to human existence. We inhabit a world where generosity and cruelty, hope and despair, construction and destruction continually coexist.

This is why stories matter. They do not remove suffering. They do not erase injustice. They do not restore every loss. Rather, they help human beings remain oriented when reality itself seems to have lost all coherence.

Some stories teach endurance. Others teach reconciliation. Some preserve memory so that injustice is not forgotten. Others awaken courage to resist systems that diminish human dignity. Still others remind us that failure need not become the final chapter of a life, a people, or a civilization.

Perhaps this explains why every enduring culture has preserved narratives of exile and homecoming, descent and renewal, loss and reconciliation. Such stories do not deny the brokenness of the world. They acknowledge it fully while refusing to surrender the possibility that something more faithful, more compassionate, and more deeply human may yet emerge.

The question before us, then, is not whether stories possess power.

History leaves little doubt that they do.

The deeper question is whether the stories by which we choose to live correspond faithfully to reality itself. Do they enlarge our capacity for compassion, participation, and shared flourishing? Or do they narrow reality into fear, exclusion, domination, and despair?

Upon the answers to such questions civilizations themselves often rise or fall.


IV. Humanity's Enduring Stories

If the brokenness of the world is nearly universal,
it should not surprise us that certain stories are equally universal.

Across continents, centuries, languages, and civilizations, humanity has repeatedly told stories of departure and return, exile and homecoming, suffering and hope, failure and renewal. These stories appear in sacred scriptures, epic poems, village traditions, oral histories, family memories, novels, films, and ordinary conversations. Their settings differ. Their symbols differ. Their languages differ. Yet beneath those differences remarkably similar patterns emerge.

A child leaves home and must discover who they are.

A people lose their homeland and dream of return.

A wanderer searches for wisdom.

A community survives catastrophe and begins again.

A family preserves the memory of those who sacrificed for future generations.

A civilization struggles to understand why justice so often seems delayed while compassion remains necessary.

These are not merely religious themes.

They are human themes.

The Hebrew Scriptures tell of Abraham leaving his homeland, Israel wandering through the wilderness, exile into Babylon, and the long hope of return. Christianity remembers the journeys of disciples, the suffering of the cross, and the hope of resurrection. Islam preserves the Hijra as a journey from persecution toward community. Buddhism begins with a prince leaving the security of his palace in search of awakening. Indigenous traditions often remember humanity's relationship with land, ancestors, and creation through narratives that bind identity to place and responsibility. Modern literature and cinema continue telling stories of loss, courage, sacrifice, reconciliation, and renewal because the questions themselves have never disappeared.

Even those who claim no religious tradition continue living within stories. The scientist pursues understanding through discovery. The physician seeks healing. The refugee searches for safety. The recovering addict hopes for restoration. Parents sacrifice for children they may never see fully grown. Communities rebuild after flood, famine, violence, or economic collapse.

Every life becomes a journey through realities that cannot be reduced to facts alone.

Perhaps this explains why humanity never outgrows story. We mature intellectually. We advance scientifically. We deepen philosophically. Yet we continue gathering around stories because they speak to dimensions of existence that explanation alone cannot satisfy. They remind us that facts describe the world, while narratives help us inhabit it.

For this reason, the enduring question is not whether stories belong to reality.

They already do.

The more searching question is whether the stories we inherit - and the stories we choose to tell ourselves - invite us toward greater truthfulness, deeper compassion, wider participation, and more faithful ways of living together within the reality we share.


Conclusion - Every Life is a Story

Every human life becomes a story.

Some stories are remembered only by families. Others become the heritage of entire peoples. Some endure for a generation, while others continue shaping civilizations thousands of years after they were first told.

Yet beneath their remarkable diversity lies a shared human search: to discover how finite creatures might live meaningfully within a reality that is at once beautiful and broken, generous and tragic, hopeful and uncertain.

This, perhaps, explains why stories continue to outlive empires.

They preserve what facts alone cannot.

They carry memory across generations. They give language to suffering. They awaken imagination when despair appears final. They challenge injustice without pretending that injustice has already been overcome. They remind us that failure need not become destiny, and that renewal remains conceivable even when circumstances appear otherwise.

But not every story enlarges humanity. Some cultivate fear. Some sanctify violence. Some justify domination. While others awaken compassion, responsibility, reconciliation, and hope.

For this reason, stories deserve neither uncritical acceptance nor cynical dismissal. They deserve careful listening, thoughtful interpretation, and responsible discernment. Like every human creation, they possess the capacity both to illuminate reality and to obscure it.

The task of metaphysics is therefore not to replace humanity's stories with abstract philosophy.

Its task is to ask why stories possess such remarkable power in the first place.

Why do they continue orienting persons, families, cultures, religions, and civilizations toward particular visions of reality?

Why do certain narratives continue nurturing lives of courage, mercy, and participation while others perpetuate fear, exclusion, and despair?

These questions lead naturally toward one of humanity's oldest narrative patterns - the movement through descent, interruption, transformation, and renewed participation. Such stories appear in many forms and across many traditions, inviting us to consider whether they reveal not merely recurring features of human experience, but something enduring about reality itself.

It is to one such story that we now turn in our next essay.


BIBLIOGRAPHY

Campbell, Joseph. The Hero with a Thousand Faces. 3rd ed. Novato, CA: New World Library, 2008.

Didion, Joan. The White Album. New York: Simon & Schuster, 1979.

Eliade, Mircea. Myth and Reality. New York: Harper & Row, 1963.

Frankl, Viktor E.. Man's Search for Meaning. Boston: Beacon Press, 2006.

Heschel, Abraham Joshua. God in Search of Man. New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1955.

Jung, Carl Gustav. Man and His Symbols. New York: Dell Publishing, 1964.

MacIntyre, Alasdair. After Virtue. 3rd ed. Notre Dame, IN: University of Notre Dame Press, 2007.

Niebuhr, Reinhold. The Nature and Destiny of Man. 2 vols. Louisville, KY: Westminster John Knox Press, 1996.

Nussbaum, Martha C.. Upheavals of Thought: The Intelligence of Emotions. Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2001.

Ricoeur, Paul. Time and Narrative. 3 vols. Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1984–1988.

Taylor, Charles. Sources of the Self: The Making of the Modern Identity. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 1989.

Whitehead, Alfred North. Adventures of Ideas. New York: Free Press, 1967.

Whitehead, Alfred North. Process and Reality. Corrected ed. Edited by David Ray Griffin and Donald W. Sherburne. New York: Free Press, 1978.

Wright, N. T.. The New Testament and the People of God. Minneapolis: Fortress Press, 1992.


Why Were These Authors Chosen?
  • Whitehead grounds the metaphysical project.
  • Frankl reminds us that meaning is forged amid suffering.
  • Niebuhr guards us from naïveté.
  • Campbell introduces comparative myth without requiring agreement.
  • Eliade contributes the religious-symbolic dimension.
  • Ricoeur may be the single most important philosopher for this essay because of narrative identity and interpretation.
  • MacIntyre bridges narrative and ethics through his insight that human lives are intelligible as enacted stories.
  • Taylor broadens the discussion to modern identity.
  • Jung contributes symbolic and archetypal imagination without requiring full acceptance of his psychology.
  • Heschel keeps alive the existential and religious depth of wonder.
  • Nussbaum grounds the role of emotions and vulnerability in human understanding.
  • Didion gives the essay a literary and existential voice through her famous insight that "we tell ourselves stories in order to live."

One final recommendation: Paul Ricoeur deserves to become one of the quiet conversation partners for the whole Metaphysics series, much as Whitehead is its philosophical foundation. Whitehead explains becoming; Ricoeur explains how finite human beings interpret becoming through narrative, memory, and identity. Those two voices, while very different, complement one another remarkably well and fit the direction the project being undertaken.



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