Quotes & Sayings


We, and creation itself, actualize the possibilities of the God who sustains the world, towards becoming in the world in a fuller, more deeper way. - R.E. Slater

There is urgency in coming to see the world as a web of interrelated processes of which we are integral parts, so that all of our choices and actions have [consequential effects upon] the world around us. - Process Metaphysician Alfred North Whitehead

Kurt Gödel's Incompleteness Theorem says (i) all closed systems are unprovable within themselves and, that (ii) all open systems are rightly understood as incomplete. - R.E. Slater

The most true thing about you is what God has said to you in Christ, "You are My Beloved." - Tripp Fuller

The God among us is the God who refuses to be God without us, so great is God's Love. - Tripp Fuller

According to some Christian outlooks we were made for another world. Perhaps, rather, we were made for this world to recreate, reclaim, redeem, and renew unto God's future aspiration by the power of His Spirit. - R.E. Slater

Our eschatological ethos is to love. To stand with those who are oppressed. To stand against those who are oppressing. It is that simple. Love is our only calling and Christian Hope. - R.E. Slater

Secularization theory has been massively falsified. We don't live in an age of secularity. We live in an age of explosive, pervasive religiosity... an age of religious pluralism. - Peter L. Berger

Exploring the edge of life and faith in a post-everything world. - Todd Littleton

I don't need another reason to believe, your love is all around for me to see. – Anon

Thou art our need; and in giving us more of thyself thou givest us all. - Khalil Gibran, Prayer XXIII

Be careful what you pretend to be. You become what you pretend to be. - Kurt Vonnegut

Religious beliefs, far from being primary, are often shaped and adjusted by our social goals. - Jim Forest

We become who we are by what we believe and can justify. - R.E. Slater

People, even more than things, need to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. – Anon

Certainly, God's love has made fools of us all. - R.E. Slater

An apocalyptic Christian faith doesn't wait for Jesus to come, but for Jesus to become in our midst. - R.E. Slater

Christian belief in God begins with the cross and resurrection of Jesus, not with rational apologetics. - Eberhard Jüngel, Jürgen Moltmann

Our knowledge of God is through the 'I-Thou' encounter, not in finding God at the end of a syllogism or argument. There is a grave danger in any Christian treatment of God as an object. The God of Jesus Christ and Scripture is irreducibly subject and never made as an object, a force, a power, or a principle that can be manipulated. - Emil Brunner

“Ehyeh Asher Ehyeh” means "I will be that who I have yet to become." - God (Ex 3.14) or, conversely, “I AM who I AM Becoming.”

Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy. - Thomas Merton

The church is God's world-changing social experiment of bringing unlikes and differents to the Eucharist/Communion table to share life with one another as a new kind of family. When this happens, we show to the world what love, justice, peace, reconciliation, and life together is designed by God to be. The church is God's show-and-tell for the world to see how God wants us to live as a blended, global, polypluralistic family united with one will, by one Lord, and baptized by one Spirit. – Anon

The cross that is planted at the heart of the history of the world cannot be uprooted. - Jacques Ellul

The Unity in whose loving presence the universe unfolds is inside each person as a call to welcome the stranger, protect animals and the earth, respect the dignity of each person, think new thoughts, and help bring about ecological civilizations. - John Cobb & Farhan A. Shah

If you board the wrong train it is of no use running along the corridors of the train in the other direction. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer

God's justice is restorative rather than punitive; His discipline is merciful rather than punishing; His power is made perfect in weakness; and His grace is sufficient for all. – Anon

Our little [biblical] systems have their day; they have their day and cease to be. They are but broken lights of Thee, and Thou, O God art more than they. - Alfred Lord Tennyson

We can’t control God; God is uncontrollable. God can’t control us; God’s love is uncontrolling! - Thomas Jay Oord

Life in perspective but always in process... as we are relational beings in process to one another, so life events are in process in relation to each event... as God is to Self, is to world, is to us... like Father, like sons and daughters, like events... life in process yet always in perspective. - R.E. Slater

To promote societal transition to sustainable ways of living and a global society founded on a shared ethical framework which includes respect and care for the community of life, ecological integrity, universal human rights, respect for diversity, economic justice, democracy, and a culture of peace. - The Earth Charter Mission Statement

Christian humanism is the belief that human freedom, individual conscience, and unencumbered rational inquiry are compatible with the practice of Christianity or even intrinsic in its doctrine. It represents a philosophical union of Christian faith and classical humanist principles. - Scott Postma

It is never wise to have a self-appointed religious institution determine a nation's moral code. The opportunities for moral compromise and failure are high; the moral codes and creeds assuredly racist, discriminatory, or subjectively and religiously defined; and the pronouncement of inhumanitarian political objectives quite predictable. - R.E. Slater

God's love must both center and define the Christian faith and all religious or human faiths seeking human and ecological balance in worlds of subtraction, harm, tragedy, and evil. - R.E. Slater

In Whitehead’s process ontology, we can think of the experiential ground of reality as an eternal pulse whereby what is objectively public in one moment becomes subjectively prehended in the next, and whereby the subject that emerges from its feelings then perishes into public expression as an object (or “superject”) aiming for novelty. There is a rhythm of Being between object and subject, not an ontological division. This rhythm powers the creative growth of the universe from one occasion of experience to the next. This is the Whiteheadian mantra: “The many become one and are increased by one.” - Matthew Segall

Without Love there is no Truth. And True Truth is always Loving. There is no dichotomy between these terms but only seamless integration. This is the premier centering focus of a Processual Theology of Love. - R.E. Slater

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Note: Generally I do not respond to commentary. I may read the comments but wish to reserve my time to write (or write from the comments I read). Instead, I'd like to see our community help one another and in the helping encourage and exhort each of us towards Christian love in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior. - re slater

Friday, July 10, 2026

Why Relation Comes First (13)



ESSAY THIRTEEN
III. The Philosophy of Reality

Reality → Ontology → Metaphysics → Interpretation → Ethics → Participation

Why Relation Comes First

Metaphysics XIII - The Primacy of Relation

by R.E. Slater and ChatGPT


Nothing exists entirely by itself.
Everything becomes through relation.
- R. E. Slater

Relation is not what connects reality.
Relation is how reality exists.
- R. E. Slater

Before there are enduring things,
there are relations from which enduring things emerge.
- R. E. Slater

Relation gives rise to becoming.
Becoming stabilizes embodiment.
Embodiment invites participation.
- R. E. Slater


Essay Outline

I. Why Relation Comes First
Relation as the First Principle of Metaphysics

II. Relation Before Substance
Reconsidering the Classical Metaphysical Tradition

III. Relation Generates Becoming
Why Reality Is Fundamentally Dynamic

IV. Coherence: The Emergence of Stable Worlds
How Becoming Gives Rise to Enduring Embodiments

V. The Consequences of Relation
Identity, Creativity, Knowledge, Freedom, and Participation

Conclusion – The Primacy of Relation
Relation as the Beginning of Metaphysics

Bibliography


Preface

The previous essays have followed a deliberate path. We began by asking the enduring philosophical question, What is reality? We then explored the major historical and contemporary interpretations that have sought to answer that question before asking why process-relational thought has re-emerged with renewed significance in contemporary metaphysics.

Those essays established an important conclusion. A growing number of philosophical conversations increasingly describe reality through the language of relation, emergence, embodiment, participation, and becoming. Yet one question still remains.

Why does relation appear so fundamental?

For much of Western philosophy, relation was often understood as something existing between already complete entities. Things or substances first existed; only afterwards did they enter into relationships with one another. A process-relational metaphysics invites us to consider a different possibility:

What if relation is not secondary to reality but one of its most fundamental conditions? What if enduring realities emerge through relation rather than merely participating in it after they already exist?

This possibility marks an important turning point in the development of an open relational process metaphysics. If relation is metaphysically primary, then becoming is no longer simply change occurring within reality. Becoming becomes the dynamic through which reality continually constitutes itself. Likewise, embodiment is no longer understood merely as the possession of material form. It becomes the temporary achievement of relational coherence - the emergence of relatively stable realities capable of persistence, identity, meaning, and participation within an ever-unfolding world.

This essay therefore begins a new stage in our exploration. Rather than surveying competing philosophical systems, we begin developing the conceptual grammar of an open relational process metaphysics itself. Three ideas will guide the essays that follow:

Relation gives rise to becoming.
Becoming stabilizes into embodiment.
Embodiment invites participation.

Together these principles do not constitute a finished philosophical system. They simply offer a way of asking whether reality may be more faithfully understood as an open, relational, and continually creative process of becoming.

The journey therefore continues - not by abandoning the philosophical traditions that have brought us this far, but by allowing their enduring insights to converge within a broader and more coherent understanding of the reality we all inhabit.


I. Why Relation Comes First

Relation is not what connects reality.
Relation is how reality exists.
- R. E. Slater

Every metaphysical system begins somewhere.

Some begin with matter. Others begin with mind. Still others begin with God, consciousness, energy, information, substance, or process. Each starting point shapes everything that follows, for the first principles of a philosophy inevitably determine the questions it is able - or unable - to ask.

The tradition we have inherited has often begun with things. Whether understood as substances, objects, individuals, or discrete entities, reality has frequently been imagined as composed of independently existing beings that subsequently enter into relationships with one another. Relation, within this framework, becomes secondary. Things exist first; relations connect them afterward.

An open relational process metaphysics proposes a different point of departure.

Rather than asking how independent entities become related, it asks whether relation itself is the primary condition through which entities emerge at all. This is not merely a reversal of philosophical priorities. It is a reconsideration of what it means for anything to exist. If nothing exists entirely by itself, then relation cannot simply be an accidental property added to already complete realities. Relation belongs to the very possibility of existence.

This shift carries profound implications. Identity is no longer understood as something possessed prior to relationship. Rather, identity gradually emerges through the histories of relation that give rise to relatively enduring forms of coherence and embodiment. To exist is therefore not merely to be an isolated thing, but to participate within a continually unfolding web of relationships through which existence itself becomes possible.

This insight has appeared repeatedly throughout the history of philosophy, although often under different names. Eastern traditions spoke of dependent origination, harmony, and the interdependence of all things. Process philosophers emphasized becoming, prehension, and creative advance. Contemporary discussions explore systems, emergence, ecological networks, and relational ontology. Although their vocabularies differ, they increasingly converge upon a similar intuition: relation is not simply one characteristic of reality. It belongs to the way reality continually comes into being.

The question before us, then, is no longer whether relations exist. Few would deny that they do. The deeper question is whether relation itself is metaphysically fundamental - whether it belongs not merely to the description of reality but to the very grammar by which reality unfolds.

It is this possibility that the present essay explores.


II. Relation Before Substance

Before there are enduring things,
there are relations from which enduring things emerge.
R. E. Slater

From its earliest beginnings, Western metaphysics sought to identify that which most truly endures. The search for permanence provided philosophy with one of its greatest achievements. Plato looked beyond the changing world toward eternal Forms. Aristotle grounded reality in substance (ousia), seeking that which persists through change while accounting for the diverse characteristics of the natural world. Medieval philosophy further developed these ideas in its Scholastic reflections upon creation, being, and the intelligibility of the cosmos.

These traditions remain among the greatest accomplishments of human thought. They supplied the conceptual foundations for centuries of philosophical, theological, and scientific reflection. Yet they also shared a common starting point. They generally assumed that enduring realities existed prior to the relationships into which they entered. Relation explained interaction; it did not explain existence itself.

Comparatively, a process-relational metaphysics asks whether this order of explanation might be reconsidered.

What if relation is not something that follows existence but one of the conditions through which existence continually arises? What if enduring realities (substance philosopohies) are not the metaphysical beginning of the story but the relatively stable achievements of countless relational histories? Such questions do not deny the importance of substance. They ask whether substance itself requires a deeper explanation.

This possibility does not diminish Aristotle's concern for persistence. Rather, it enriches it. A mountain, a forest, an organism, a person, or a civilization all exhibit remarkable continuity across time. Yet none exists independently of the innumerable relationships through which it continually maintains its coherence. Stability, in this sense, is not the absence of becoming but one of becoming's most remarkable achievements.

Seen from this perspective, relation and substance cease to function as competing metaphysical principles. Relation explains how realities emerge, develop, and remain capable of transformation. Substance describes the relatively enduring embodiments through which those relational achievements become historically present. Each therefore illuminates a different aspect of the same reality within a process-relational metaphysic.

The philosophical question is no longer whether substance exists. Clearly it does. The deeper question becomes whether substance is metaphysically fundamental or whether it represents the enduring embodiment of more primordial relational processes. If the latter proves persuasive, then relation does not replace substance. It explains why enduring substances exist at all.

The implications of this shift extends far beyond metaphysics alone. If relation is primary, then identity, freedom, community, creativity, meaning, and even knowledge itself must all be reconsidered within a fundamentally relational horizon. The remainder of this essay begins exploring those implications.


III. Relation Generates Becoming

Relation gives rise to becoming.
Becoming stabilizes into embodiment.
Embodiment invites participation.
R. E. Slater

If relation is metaphysically fundamental, then reality cannot be understood as a collection of already completed entities interacting from positions of independent existence. Relation itself becomes generative. It is the dynamic through which new realities continually arise.

This marks one of the most significant departures from classical metaphysical thinking. Traditionally, becoming was often regarded as something occurring to substances already in existence. A process-relational metaphysics reverses this order of origination. Becoming is no longer understood as an accidental modification of independent things. Rather, becoming is the continual activity through which relations generate increasingly coherent forms of existence.

This does not imply perpetual instability or ceaseless flux. On the contrary, relation continually seeks coherence. Through countless interactions, patterns emerge. Some persist. Others disappear. Still others organize themselves into increasingly stable embodiments capable of sustaining their own histories through time. Reality therefore exhibits remarkable continuity precisely because relational becoming is capable of generating enduring forms rather than endless fragmentation.

Seen in this light, becoming is neither the opposite of being nor the denial of permanence. Becoming is the creative movement through which relatively stable forms continually arise, endure for a season, and participate in further histories of relation. Every embodiment represents both an achievement of previous becoming and the beginning of future becoming.

One may therefore summarize the process-relational movement of reality in a simple progression:

Relation → Becoming → Embodiment

Relations generate becoming.

Becoming stabilizes into embodiment.

Embodiments participate in new relations.

The movement is therefore not circular but developmental. Each embodiment enriches the field of future relations from which new possibilities emerge. Reality does not merely repeat itself. It continually enlarges the possibilities through which future becoming may occur. Thus envisaging Heraclitus's quip, "You cannot step into the same river twice."

This relational understanding of becoming also helps explain why contemporary philosophy increasingly finds itself speaking the language of emergence, living systems, ecological interdependence, network complexity, and reality's global participation. Although these conversations arise from diverse disciplines, they repeatedly converge upon a common insight:

Reality appears capable of generating novelty through relationship itself. Becoming is therefore not an interruption of reality but one of the principal ways reality continually expresses its own creative character.


IV. Coherence: The Emergence of Stable Worlds

Relations generate possibilities for coherence.
Where coherence emerges, enduring worlds become possible.
R. E. Slater

If relation gives rise to becoming, another question immediately follows. Why do some relational processes endure while others disappear almost as quickly as they arise? Reality is filled with continual interactions, yet only a comparatively small number develop into the coherent patterns that eventually shape worlds, organisms, persons, cultures, and civilizations.

The answer appears to lie not in becoming alone but in the emergence of coherence.

Coherence is neither imposed from outside reality nor guaranteed by every relational encounter. Rather, coherence emerges whenever relationships become sufficiently integrated to sustain themselves through time. Most relations remain transient. Some dissolve almost immediately. Others achieve increasing stability, allowing new levels of organization to arise. It is this gradual emergence of coherence that makes enduring embodiments possible.

An open relational process metaphysics therefore understands coherence as one of the great achievements of becoming. Becoming continually generates possibilities. Coherence distinguishes those relational patterns capable of persistence from those that simply dissipate. Reality is therefore neither random nor rigidly predetermined. It remains genuinely open while continually exhibiting an astonishing capacity for self-organization.

Seen in this light, embodiment no longer appears as an isolated metaphysical event. Every embodiment represents the temporary stabilization of coherent relational activity. Mountains, ecosystems, organisms, languages, cultures, institutions, and persons all embody histories of relational coherence that have successfully endured through countless moments of becoming.

This perspective also helps explain why dissolution occupies an equally important place within reality. Not every relation achieves coherence. Many possibilities remain unrealized. Others flourish only briefly before giving way to new configurations of relation and becoming. Dissolution is therefore not the opposite of reality's creativity but one of the ways through which reality continually remains open to novelty, adaptation, and further emergence.

The movement may therefore be expressed as:

Relation → Becoming → Coherence → Embodiment

Relations generate possibilities.

Becoming explores those possibilities.

Coherence stabilizes them.

Embodiment gives them enduring historical presence.

Every embodiment then participates in new relations through which the entire movement begins again.

Reality thus unfolds neither as perpetual chaos nor as fixed permanence. Reality continually generates, tests, stabilizes, and transforms its own possibilities through the dynamic interplay of relation, becoming, coherence, and embodiment. Stable worlds are not exceptions to becoming. They are among its most remarkable achievements.


V. The Consequences of Relation

Nothing exists alone.
Therefore nothing becomes alone.
- R. E. Slater

If relation belongs to the very constitution of reality, then its significance extends far beyond metaphysical speculation alone. The consequences reach into every dimension of existence. They reshape how we understand identity, community, creativity, knowledge, freedom, ethics, and even the possibility of religious faith.

The first consequence concerns individuality itself. A relational metaphysics does not deny the existence of individuation. Rather, it understands individuals as coherent embodiments whose histories have emerged through innumerable relationships. Individuality therefore becomes more rather than less significant, for every enduring identity represents a unique achievement of relational becoming.

A second consequence concerns creativity. If relation continually generates new possibilities through becoming, then novelty need not appear as an inexplicable interruption imposed upon reality. Creativity belongs to reality's ordinary manner of unfolding. Every coherent embodiment enlarges the horizon of future possibilities by contributing something genuinely new to the ongoing history of the universe.

A third consequence concerns knowledge. Human understanding no longer appears as the detached observation of an independent world by isolated minds. Knowing itself becomes relational participation. We come to understand reality because we ourselves belong to the reality we seek to understand. Philosophy therefore becomes less the construction of abstract systems than the continual refinement of our correspondence with the world we inhabit.

A fourth consequence concerns freedom. If reality is genuinely relational, then the future cannot be completely predetermined by the past. Every new relation builds upon the past while introducing new possibilities that did not previously exist in precisely the same form. Freedom therefore emerges not as independence from relation but as one of relation's most remarkable achievements. Openness belongs to reality because reality itself continually creates opportunities for new becoming.

Finally, relation transforms our understanding of participation. Every coherent embodiment contributes to realities larger than itself while simultaneously being shaped by them. Persons participate in communities. Communities participate in cultures. Organisms participate in ecosystems. Civilizations participate in history. Reality continually unfolds through these nested patterns of mutual participation, each enlarging the possibilities of the others.

The implications of relation therefore extend far beyond one philosophical school or another. They suggest a different way of understanding existence itself. Reality appears less as an assemblage of isolated substances than as an ever-deepening community of relational becoming in which coherence, embodiment, and participation continually generate new possibilities for the future.

For this reason, relation should not be understood merely as one metaphysical category among many. It increasingly appears as one of the most fundamental conditions through which reality becomes capable of history, creativity, identity, meaning, and hope.


Conclusion - The Primacy of Relation

Ontology gives the vocabulary.
Metaphysics gives the grammar.
Interpretation gives the meaning.
Theology gives the orientation.
Ethics gives the response.
Participation gives the life.

The purpose of this essay has not been to argue that relational process is the only reality, nor to deny the importance of enduring beings, stable identities, or coherent worlds. Rather, it has proposed that relation is one of the most fundamental conditions through which these realities continually arise.

This proposal also brings this present Reality & Methaphysics series into direct conversation with the earlier ontological investigations of the Embodied Process Realism (EPR) series. There we sought to describe the recurring structures through which reality appears to organize itself. Here, as we work through Open Relational Process Metaphysics of Becoming (ORPMOB) we have begun asking why those structures arise at all.

The two projects therefore address complementary questions and investigations:

Ontology describes the architecture of reality.

Metaphysics explores the generative dynamics through which that architecture continually emerges.

Together they suggest a common movement:

Relation → Becoming → Coherence → Embodiment → Persistence → Identity → Meaning → Direction → Possibility

Within an open relational process metaphysics, relation becomes the metaphysical origin. Becoming becomes reality's generative activity. Coherence distinguishes those relational patterns capable of enduring. Embodiment marks the emergence of relatively stable realities. From these arise persistence, identity, meaning, direction, and the ever-expanding horizon of new possibilities that together characterize the unfolding history of the universe.

The remaining essays will explore each of these first principles in greater depth. Having established the primacy of relation, we now turn to becoming itself - not merely as change, but as the continual creative activity through which reality unfolds.

For if relation is the condition of reality, then becoming is its living expression.


BIBLIOGRAPHY

Classical Foundations

Why Were These Authors Chosen?

Martin Buber will become increasingly important to Open and Relational Process Metaphysics of Becoming (ORPMOB), not because he is a process philosopher, but because he developed one of the twentieth century's most influential relational philosophies. His "I–Thou" framework complements our emphasis on relation without collapsing into process metaphysics. Buber possible will reappear naturally in later essays on participation, personhood, and eventually theology.

Likewise, Edgar Morin may quietly become more important than we first realized. His work on complexity, organization, and relational thought often feels remarkably congenial to our emphasis on coherence and emergence. As ORPMOB matures, Morin may become one of its most fruitful contemporary conversation partners - not replacing Whitehead, but helping extend the process tradition into today's discussions of complex, organized, and evolving systems.

Overall, the bibliography has the right balance. Whitehead remains the central historical conversation partner, while the surrounding works demonstrate that the primacy of relation is no longer confined to one school of philosophy but has become part of a much broader contemporary intellectual landscape. That seems entirely fitting for Essay 13.



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