Quotes & Sayings


We, and creation itself, actualize the possibilities of the God who sustains the world, towards becoming in the world in a fuller, more deeper way. - R.E. Slater

There is urgency in coming to see the world as a web of interrelated processes of which we are integral parts, so that all of our choices and actions have [consequential effects upon] the world around us. - Process Metaphysician Alfred North Whitehead

Kurt Gödel's Incompleteness Theorem says (i) all closed systems are unprovable within themselves and, that (ii) all open systems are rightly understood as incomplete. - R.E. Slater

The most true thing about you is what God has said to you in Christ, "You are My Beloved." - Tripp Fuller

The God among us is the God who refuses to be God without us, so great is God's Love. - Tripp Fuller

According to some Christian outlooks we were made for another world. Perhaps, rather, we were made for this world to recreate, reclaim, redeem, and renew unto God's future aspiration by the power of His Spirit. - R.E. Slater

Our eschatological ethos is to love. To stand with those who are oppressed. To stand against those who are oppressing. It is that simple. Love is our only calling and Christian Hope. - R.E. Slater

Secularization theory has been massively falsified. We don't live in an age of secularity. We live in an age of explosive, pervasive religiosity... an age of religious pluralism. - Peter L. Berger

Exploring the edge of life and faith in a post-everything world. - Todd Littleton

I don't need another reason to believe, your love is all around for me to see. – Anon

Thou art our need; and in giving us more of thyself thou givest us all. - Khalil Gibran, Prayer XXIII

Be careful what you pretend to be. You become what you pretend to be. - Kurt Vonnegut

Religious beliefs, far from being primary, are often shaped and adjusted by our social goals. - Jim Forest

We become who we are by what we believe and can justify. - R.E. Slater

People, even more than things, need to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. – Anon

Certainly, God's love has made fools of us all. - R.E. Slater

An apocalyptic Christian faith doesn't wait for Jesus to come, but for Jesus to become in our midst. - R.E. Slater

Christian belief in God begins with the cross and resurrection of Jesus, not with rational apologetics. - Eberhard Jüngel, Jürgen Moltmann

Our knowledge of God is through the 'I-Thou' encounter, not in finding God at the end of a syllogism or argument. There is a grave danger in any Christian treatment of God as an object. The God of Jesus Christ and Scripture is irreducibly subject and never made as an object, a force, a power, or a principle that can be manipulated. - Emil Brunner

“Ehyeh Asher Ehyeh” means "I will be that who I have yet to become." - God (Ex 3.14) or, conversely, “I AM who I AM Becoming.”

Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy. - Thomas Merton

The church is God's world-changing social experiment of bringing unlikes and differents to the Eucharist/Communion table to share life with one another as a new kind of family. When this happens, we show to the world what love, justice, peace, reconciliation, and life together is designed by God to be. The church is God's show-and-tell for the world to see how God wants us to live as a blended, global, polypluralistic family united with one will, by one Lord, and baptized by one Spirit. – Anon

The cross that is planted at the heart of the history of the world cannot be uprooted. - Jacques Ellul

The Unity in whose loving presence the universe unfolds is inside each person as a call to welcome the stranger, protect animals and the earth, respect the dignity of each person, think new thoughts, and help bring about ecological civilizations. - John Cobb & Farhan A. Shah

If you board the wrong train it is of no use running along the corridors of the train in the other direction. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer

God's justice is restorative rather than punitive; His discipline is merciful rather than punishing; His power is made perfect in weakness; and His grace is sufficient for all. – Anon

Our little [biblical] systems have their day; they have their day and cease to be. They are but broken lights of Thee, and Thou, O God art more than they. - Alfred Lord Tennyson

We can’t control God; God is uncontrollable. God can’t control us; God’s love is uncontrolling! - Thomas Jay Oord

Life in perspective but always in process... as we are relational beings in process to one another, so life events are in process in relation to each event... as God is to Self, is to world, is to us... like Father, like sons and daughters, like events... life in process yet always in perspective. - R.E. Slater

To promote societal transition to sustainable ways of living and a global society founded on a shared ethical framework which includes respect and care for the community of life, ecological integrity, universal human rights, respect for diversity, economic justice, democracy, and a culture of peace. - The Earth Charter Mission Statement

Christian humanism is the belief that human freedom, individual conscience, and unencumbered rational inquiry are compatible with the practice of Christianity or even intrinsic in its doctrine. It represents a philosophical union of Christian faith and classical humanist principles. - Scott Postma

It is never wise to have a self-appointed religious institution determine a nation's moral code. The opportunities for moral compromise and failure are high; the moral codes and creeds assuredly racist, discriminatory, or subjectively and religiously defined; and the pronouncement of inhumanitarian political objectives quite predictable. - R.E. Slater

God's love must both center and define the Christian faith and all religious or human faiths seeking human and ecological balance in worlds of subtraction, harm, tragedy, and evil. - R.E. Slater

In Whitehead’s process ontology, we can think of the experiential ground of reality as an eternal pulse whereby what is objectively public in one moment becomes subjectively prehended in the next, and whereby the subject that emerges from its feelings then perishes into public expression as an object (or “superject”) aiming for novelty. There is a rhythm of Being between object and subject, not an ontological division. This rhythm powers the creative growth of the universe from one occasion of experience to the next. This is the Whiteheadian mantra: “The many become one and are increased by one.” - Matthew Segall

Without Love there is no Truth. And True Truth is always Loving. There is no dichotomy between these terms but only seamless integration. This is the premier centering focus of a Processual Theology of Love. - R.E. Slater

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Note: Generally I do not respond to commentary. I may read the comments but wish to reserve my time to write (or write from the comments I read). Instead, I'd like to see our community help one another and in the helping encourage and exhort each of us towards Christian love in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior. - re slater

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Wednesday, November 12, 2025

After the Rupture: Choosing to Heal, Essay II, Part C


by re slater & chapgpt


AFTER THE RUPTURE:
CHOOSING TO HEAL

Toward a Metanoiaic Grammar of Processual Becoming
[ A Post-Lacanian Analysis ]

ESSAY II, PART C

by R.E. Slater & ChatGPT-5


We are beings shaped by language
yet never finished in the process.
Selves which are continuously shaped
by new grammars of presence,
beauty, and worth.

- re slater & chatgpt



V. Ethics as Relational Emergence

Ethics, after the rupture, is no longer a code. It becomes a necessary response pattern.

We do not inherit morality from fixed systems of right and wrong. We learn it in motion - through relational experiences, through processual encounters, through personal responses. Each moment becomes a field of emergence where novelty appears.

Whitehead calls this the creative advance into novelty - referring to a philosophical universe which is forever learning how to live with itself, or, as in the case of humanity as an evolving species, one that is continually learning how to live with itself.

To live ethically, then, is to join this creativity consciouslyto notice what new possibilities emerge from our interactions, and to align ourselves with those that increase beauty, intensity, and harmony.

This is a processual ethics - not commandment, but communion;
not law, but listening;
not purity, but participation.

It asks:

  • Does this act contribute to the world’s capacity for more beauty, truth, or love?
  • Does it increase the field of relatedness, or constrict it?

When we begin to answer this not from ideology but from relational awareness,
ethics becomes a living art form - a choreography of becoming within and without.



by re slater & chapgpt

VI. Societal Healing: Escaping the Liturgies of Fear (A MAGA Case)

A society, like a psyche, organizes around its wounds.

MAGA culture in America is not merely a political movement;
it is a theological neurosis - a collective defense mechanism against loss of self, ambiguity of meaning, and disrupting change that it is experiencing.

It clings to mythic certainty because it cannot yet imagine belonging without domination.
It confuses the stability of truth with the comfort of control.
Its liturgy is grievance.
Its creed is nostalgia.
Its altar is the idol of certainty - that somewhere in the past, we were once "whole."

But wholeness cannot be found by returning to a mythic past.
It must be re-created through new and expansive relational experiences.

The healing of such a culture will not come through argument,
but through the slow reconstruction of relational imagination.

This means re-teaching the grammar of community:

  • that freedom is not isolating one's self but participation,

  • that truth is not a weapon but a shared, evolving discussion,

  • that faith is not allegiance to an idea but fidelity to love.

To rupture this culture’s enclosure is not to mock it,
but to speak a language that invites it forward -
to meet its fear with depth, not dismissal.

Only when new (and positive) words and new relational experiences appear - words of belonging, of co-creation, of shared future - can a closed culture of defensive myth give way to an evolving and generative story of beauty, wholeness, and love.

This is how metaphysics meets-with-and-intwines with politics.
It is not the battle of ideologies but the re-patterning of imagination.



by re slater & chapgpt

VII. Aesthetic Intelligence: Beauty as the Measure of Healing

When the moral world collapses, beauty and love must become the new teachers.

Not beauty as decoration or escape,
but beauty as the felt sense of coherence-in-motion -
the rhythm of reality finding harmony after dissonance.

Aesthetic intelligence is the intuition that knows when something feels alive.
It is what Whitehead called the lure of feeling toward order and intensity.

This form of intelligence moves us beyond analysis into attunement.
It teaches us how to sense the world’s becoming:
how to let form follow compassion,
how to see justice as a pattern of art,
how to heal through composition rather than control.

In this way, beauty becomes the ethical grammar of process itself -
the mark of righting relation between re-engaging entities.

To cultivate aesthetic intelligence is to learn how to live beautifully with difference,
to build communities not through ideology but through lively resonance.

When politics becomes ugly,
beauty is resistance.
When theology becomes cruel,
beauty is revelation.



by re slater & chapgpt

VIII. Metanoiaic Grammar as Daily Practice

The final movement of healing is not theoretical. It happens in language -
in the words we choose,
the pauses we allow,
the tone with which we greet each other.
Every sentence becomes an event of possibility.

Metanoiaic grammar is the daily practice of speaking from the wound as wonder, beauty, and love.

It asks:
  • Can we speak truth without domination?
  • Can we confess failure without despair?
  • Can we love without erasing difference?
To practice this grammar is to live as a poet of process:
  • to let our speech carry presence rather than position,
  • grace rather than certainty,
  • movement rather than mastery.

In time, the world reorganizes itself around such exemplary speech.
Neighborhoods begin to breathe differently.
Churches soften.
Families reopen.
Nations relearn how to speak across the fractures they had created.

This is how language heals.


Conclusion: Toward a World That Speaks Again

We are beings of speech and silence, shaped by wounds that are never completely healed in our  struggle to become more whole.

To heal after the rupture is not to close it, but to live through it beautifully. To make of the broken world around us a grammar of tenderness, beauty, and love.

When we speak from within our wounds - gently, truthfully, creatively - we do not restore what was lost; we "midwife" what might be bourne out of our wounds.

The task is not to return to disruptive coherence, but to re-discover a generative communion.

And so we re-learn how to move forward - not in conquest, not in certainty, but in the faith that a broken, fearing, hateful world can be healed from its delusions, harming actions, and wasteful actions; re-weaving a patched cloth into the promised beauty as only love can make.


by re slater & chapgpt


Midwives of the Wound
by R.E. Slater & ChatGPT

We are beings of speech and silence,
shaped by wounds which never close,
each scar a syllable,
each gash an unformed word,
in the unfinished sentence of our becoming.

To heal is not to wrap the break,
but to live through it beautifully -
to let the fracture speak,
to make from a broken world
a new grammar of consciousness.

When we speak from within our wounds -
gently, truthfully, creatively -
we cannot restore what was lost,
but can midwife what might be born,
into fracture worlds needing healing.

Not disruption - but communion.
not harming control - but caring speech;
moving forward one stitch at a time,
brought together by a new grammar of hope,
patching the torn cloths of creation,
with the only thread that can hold all -
love.


R.E. Slater & ChatGPT
November 12, 2025

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all rights reserved



The Power of Our Words
Thus spake Adam -

In the hurry of the day,

In the brevity of life,
At the dawn of creation,
Before the Tree of Life,

“Giveth to me the power of your words…”


      To bind or create

      Make dead or alive
      Burden or uplift
      Withhold or provoke
      Bury or resurrect
      Expire or inspire
      Imprison or release
      Prevent or excite
      Dissuade or arouse
      Divide or multiply

      To add or subtract

      Fortify or offend
      Declare or hide
      Begin or end
      Wake or sleep
      Enrich or impoverish
      Transpire or cease
      Help or hurt
      Heal or harm
      Transform or change

Spake the Voice of the Almighty -


Like the oceans of turbulent seas,

Like the storm its thunderous deeps,
On birdsong as gentle as the breeze,
As love ever bent in tender kiss,

“Bless now the power of My words…”



R.E. Slater
October 31, 2011

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all rights reserved


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COMPLETION OF PROCESSUAL FREEWILL AGENCY
& HEALING FROM THE EFFECTS OF SIN AND LACK










Tuesday, November 11, 2025

After the Rupture: Choosing to Heal, Essay II, Part B


Since 2006, Meijer Gardens has been home to Spanish artist Jaume Plensa’s “I, you, she or he…,” a gift from Fred & Lena Meijer. The work includes a composition of three figures seated on boulders, whose shells are made of stainless steel letters.

AFTER THE RUPTURE:
CHOOSING TO HEAL

The Reconstitution of Self, Spirit, and Sacred Language
[ A Post-Lacanian Analysis ]

ESSAY II, PART B

by R.E. Slater & ChatGPT-5


We are beings shaped by language
yet never finished in the process.
Selves which are continuously shaped
by new grammars of presence,
beauty, and worth.

- re slater & chatgpt



II. Constellations of Meaning: How Language Re-Weaves Reality

When the symbolic order cracks, meaning does not vanish - it rearranges within us. What once felt like a linear path of understanding becomes a sky of scattered stars loosed against our imagination and feeling of lostness. And yet, if we stand long enough in the dark, we may begin to see patterns emerging which we hadn't noticed before.

In a phrase, "meaning, after rupture, becomes constellational."

Not a single story.
Not a single system.
Not a single map.
But a field of relations that only becomes intelligible when viewed with patience and openness.

Language itself shifts from being a rigid structure to a flexible topology.
Words become vectors for new relationships and resonances.
Sentences become pathways.
Concepts become clusters of possibility rather than containers of truth.

In this sense, meaning isn’t given - it takes on new patterns unseen before.
It is woven across our relationships,
our memories,
our sufferings,
our beliefs and hopes,
our everyday choices to stay present.

It is why healing requires a new language.
Trauma, pain, and suffering shatters our internal coherence;
but healing can begin to reassemble it -
but never back into the same shape as it once was.

Practically, this shows up as:

  • finding new words for old pains
  • reframing memories to make space for new concepts rather than constriction
  • speaking and acting differently toward those we love
  • discovering that meaning is not inherited but co-created
  • seeing that our identities are not fixed but relationally composed

Constellational meaning allows the self to re-organize without requiring a return to what was.

It gives us permission to say:

“I am not who I was -
I am becoming a new me;

that the loss(es) I have experience -
are not the end but the beginning;

without those losses I would not have grown -
not have been rebirthed;

that this new configuration of presence -
of experience, is a major new beginning;

that with new language, it may be reassembled -
with care, with (divine) help, with patience;

that the loom on which healing is woven -
can be the loom of which imagination begins.

- re slater


III. We Are People Formed By Language
(With direct reference to the sculpture images above)
Stand before a human figure composed of letters -
its limbs shaped by language,
its torso a lattice of phrases,
its entire being porous, permeable,
open to the world.
This is not a metaphor.
This is the beginning
of a new anthropology.
We are, in a real and profound sense,
reimagining linguistic beings.
Our memories are narrated.
Our emotions are patterned by vocabulary.
Our identities are forged in the stories we tell and are told.
Our futures are imagined through the syntax we can hold.
The self is not a fixed essence.
It is a linguistic ecology of growth
and transformation.

 We are continuously shifting fields of:

  • inherited phrases,
  • cultural scripts,
  • personal metaphors,
  • affective tones,
  • narrative fragments,
  • relational articulations.,
  • lived experiences.

And after rupture, this ecology becomes fertile again:

  • Rigid identities loosen.
  • New articulations sprout in the softened soil.
  • New metaphors grow roots.
  • New forms of meaning take shape like small green shoots.
This is where healing begins:
not by repairing the old self,
but by giving language enough space
to assemble a new self, a new purpose,
a new destiny.

In practical terms:

  • A person who once carried guilt and shame learns a new vocabulary of personal worth.
  • Someone raised inside fear discovers a grammar of erased boundaries and new courage.
  • A survivor of religious harm reconstructs a sacred lexicon that no longer grants wounds.
  • A politically fragmented citizen learns to speak in relational, not combative, rhetoric.
Identity becomes less a fortress
and more a conversation.
Less a monument of impervious stone
and more a movement of flesh and blood.


This is what the sculptures above reveal
as they sit in conversation with one another:
We are made of words, ideas, concepts -
that we may transition from old architectures
that had once imprisoned our past selves -
to be released to relearn how to speak in new
forms of presence and experience; in new words
of Renewal. Rebirth. Genuine transformation.
Words of freedom and liberation unbound from
past rigid words which could no longer bend
nor understand. Which refused life and
liberty not only to ourselves but to those
around us.
We are no longer caged birds captured -
but free to fly, to wander, to explore and
examine as we deconstruct our past
and reconstruct our present moment
towards more fulfilling, imagined futures.
We are ever-and-always people of language -
bound in script and verse, song and event.
Cautioned to be careful in transformation;
to use our words aright, that they be good,
nurturing, generative, and healing.
- re slater

IV. Re-Spiritualizing Language: Theopoetics After the Break

Every spiritual tradition begins with language that once had felt alive, that had once made sense - and then, over time, hardened and encaged. Words meant to liberate begin to constrain, become rigid. Metaphors meant to open the heart had become treated as literal claims about a unreal reality.

It is here, when our sacred vocabulary ossifies, that we either flee to rebuild or suffocate.
For without ruptures and living wounds, nothing remarkable can become possible;
but with misgivings, heart break, senseless living and beliefs,
may come the fertile grounds of learning to re-speak the sacred again.
Not discarded. Not returned to. But re-spoken.
This new language may be held in the language of theopoetics
(as shown here in these sections)...
Theopoetics is not a decorative form of theology;
it is the recognition that sacred meaning
is always a living articulation
that breathes, shifts,
deepens our conversations
with one another;
that adapts to new forms of understanding,
refusing rigidity -
because the divine itself is never rigid,
caged, imprisoning,
but always relational, freeing, unbinding.
A reconstructed sacred language must:
  • honor complexity without drowning in abstraction
  • open the heart without denying intellectual integrity
  • move with good science rather than against it
  • speak of God without reducing the divine to a cosmic taskmaster
  • offer presence rather than fear
  • cultivate liberation rather than hierarchy
In process terms:
the sacred is not elsewhere -
but ever in the relational field.

In metamodern terms:
faith is not certainty or cynicism -
it is a felt oscillation between awe and inquiry.

Practically, this looks like:

  • replacing punitive spiritual narratives with relational ones
  • reconstructing prayer as attunement rather than continual petition
  • speaking of God as presence, not as severe authoritarian personhood
  • adopting a sacred grammar rooted in healing, justice, and co-creation
  • allowing oneself to return to mystery without returning to fear
Re-spiritualizing religious language becomes the site where the divine is encountered:
Not as dogma but as presence.
Not as a claim, but as a relationship.
A whisper.
An attunement.
A resonance with reality.

And it is from this renewed sacred vocabulary
that healing deepens and may generously spread -
through families, communities, and eventually closed societies....

Monday, November 10, 2025

After the Rupture: Choosing to Heal, Essay II, Part A



AFTER THE RUPTURE:
CHOOSING TO HEAL

Toward a Metanoiaic Grammar of Processual Becoming
[ A Post-Lacanian Analysis ]

ESSAY II, PART A

by R.E. Slater & ChatGPT-5


We are beings shaped by language
yet never finished in the process.
Selves which are continuously shaped
by new grammars of presence,
beauty, and worth.

- re slater & chatgpt



Preface: After the Rupture

There are moments when language breaks - not because we misuse it, but because the world shifts beneath it. The vocabulary we trusted becomes too small. Our phrases, once solid, crumble in our hands. What we thought were truths dissolve into atmospheres of uncertainty. And yet something in us refuses silence.

This essay begins in that fragile interval between breakage and healing...

  • Every living language eventually meets its limit.
  • Not because reality stops speaking,
  • but because our inherited vocabularies have stopped responding.

When a symbolic system becomes rigid, it no longer can describe the world - rather, it defends itself from the world. When this happens, the first task is not to construct something new, because nothing can be reconstructed until you first deconstruct one's inherited language that has become unuseful, outmoded, outdated.

For classicists (Platonic Christian theology) and modernists (evangelical Christians), this is not a return further into transcendence (on one side of the spectrum), nor a retreat into skepticism (on the other side of the spectrum), but an an invitation into a new grammar of becoming - a grammar born from re-examining one's inherited environment, comparing it to one's current settings, and finally, reconfiguring one's self so that it better resonates with the future hope we had once borne within us.

This process is known as re-construction. It comes after a period (usually longish rather than short) or deconstruction. Both processes will take time... and energy... usually vast amounts of time and energy. Why? because it has hit the "nerve of our beliefs. Our being. The shape of our destiny. Our becoming. It is never easy. Always disruptive. And will "un-nerve" friends and family.

There will be sharp feelings of pain, betrayal, abandonment, lostness, perplexity. Deconstruction is hard. Very hard. Many abandon it's process as soon as such feelings appear. They might not return to their "old ways" but they may exchange one path for another. Paths which abort the process of deconstruction and never, ever allow re-construction. Why? Because healthy reconstructions require complete (or completing) deconstructive periods in our lives. The one comes before the other. If not, reconstructions cannot come. They are simply perpetually replaced for lesser paths, lesser choices. Or, to use other words... perhaps newer addictions, unsatisfying substitutes, and livelihoods of emptiness.

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Essay I through its Parts A, B, C, traced the necessity of breaking open static, outmoded, useless symbolic structures. Structures which require deconstruction. 

Essay II seeks a newer language which comes after a personal breakage - one of renewal moving towards a more hopeful reconstruction. It will require patience. Discernment. Experimentation. Trial-and-Error.
  • This new language must be full enough to hold complexity,
  • strong enough to shape coherence,
  • and alive enough to honor the movement of becoming.
In this existential tension of renewal and promised healing will come a new language of learning to  form and articulate a new grammar.
  • One that is neither entrenched, stressed, nor plagued by denial;
  • one that sees modernism for what it was;
  • sees postmodernism's helpful critique of modernism's fractures;
  • and begins to inhabit metamodern insights of renewal and revival.
Here a re-weaving of feeling and thought will come into play; new relations and insights will provide background and examination; feelings of being present in the moment ("immanence") will find lodging; and the child-like use of playground imagination will emerge with new possibilities and opportunities.

This processual metanoiaic grammar is not a grammar of certainty. It requires uncertainty and doubt in order to move from one's past to one's future. But is a grammar which can accommodate difference, tension, and helping 20-20 critique; traits which will be useful in order to move from the personal angst of existential fragmentation to the feeling of wholeness and healing.

Thus will begin the process of feeling more attuned in a world that is continually re-forming itself day-by-day, year-by-year, generation-by-generation, across a world of difference, plurality, community, beliefs, religions, cultures, and immense challenges.

This is the threshold at which Essay II begins.




Introduction: Why We Need A New Grammar After Breakage

When a symbolic world opens - whether personally, culturally, or spiritually - language cannot survive the fracturing event. It changes. It less sure, more porous, seeks for greater expansiveness. Words that once carried authority now feel rigid and confining. Old frameworks once so comforting and protective can no longer absorb new experiences presented to it. Sentences that used to describe reality begin to feel like fossilized artifacts and relics from another time, era, culture.

Rupture clears the atmosphere. It demands personal movement. Personal reconfiguration. More helpful people, resources and experiences in our lives.

But what comes after this breakage?

After personal, communal, or societal ruptures, the world might demand immediate clinging to the old ways, old assurances, old beliefs, but these are broken. They have evaporated. They are gone. Nor can new paths, assurances, or beliefs be formed without first undergoing a fuller process of deconstruction to help clear the air, see more than one path, understand the choices around us.

More simply, a fractured system only presently requires a new grammar expansive enough to help it articulate the coming deconstructive period. And from that difficult period will come yet another grammar to help explore - and perhaps inhabit (but not too soon) - a reconstructive phase. One that is healthful, nourishing, nurturing, loving, kind, good, and generative.

This "grammatical" shift will be subtle but oftentimes decisive. One in which:

  • We no longer use language to impose order;
    but use it to participate in order’s re-formation (as we inhabit re-formation).

  • We no longer use language to defend positions;
    but use it to explore relational coherence (as we explore and experiment).

  • We no longer seek to name our experience;
    but learn to accompany what we are becoming.

Such deconstructive periods require a new linguistic posture -  something neither rigidly academic nor loosely mystical. Something more like:

  • an aesthetic intelligence,
  • a contemplative practice,
  • an attuned (and perhaps, participatory) creativity.

A language capable of:

  • carrying nuance without collapsing into confusion,
  • generating coherence without erasing complexity,
  • speaking with the world, not at it,
  • weaving insight and presence into a shared horizon.

This essay proposes such a grammar -
a metanoiaic grammar of becoming -
not as a fixed system,
but as an evolving mode of expression for a world that refuses to remain static.

We will thus explore:

  • how meaning reassembles itself in constellations,
  • how communities find coherence after fragmentation,
  • how identity becomes a relational unfolding,
  • how thought begins to bloom again after collapse,
  • how valuative beauty becomes a form of guidance,
  • how language itself learns to accompany what is emergent.

This is the movement from rupture to resonance,
from broken syntax to living poiesis.

Essay I told us why the old language could not hold.
Essay II begins the gentle work of learning how to speak again.




I. After Rupture: The Necessity for a New Grammar

After a symbolic world cracks open, what remains is not silence.
It is resonance seeking a voice, a way, an expression.

A kind of shimmering promise with no clear road to follow.
Language hasn’t disappeared - it is becoming more elastic, more permeable, more porous to possibility.

The old vocabulary - the static, structural, defensive one - no longer fits.
It feels brittle, as if speaking it re-injures the world we have just exposed and gutted.

Rupture doesn’t erase language.
Rupture unfastens language.

  • Words may wander.
  • Meaning will loosen.
  • Sentences no longer march to expected cadences - they drift and wander.
  • Categories melt, becoming more pliable - like clay after the kiln cracks.

Something happens in this aftermath:
language ceases to be an authority
and functions more like a testing medium.

  • Not a mirror.
  • Not a cage.
  • Not a metalanguage.
  • But a field of relational, experiential, possibility.

This is the moment where a new grammar becomes necessary -

  • not to rebuild the old order,
  • not to impose a new order,
  • but to give shape to a new eventful becoming.

We are no longer speaking about the world.
But hopefully we are learning to speak with the world.
To be present in-and-with the world.
even as the world is itself in process of ceaseless becoming (both good and bad)

  • This requires a different linguistic mood.
  • Not the diagnostic tone of critique.
  • Not the rigid tone of a closed system.
  • Not the transcendent tone of metalanguage.

But something more like:

  • a cosmic whisper
  • a relational weave
  • a poiesis of mutuality
  • a constellation of feeling
  • an aesthetic coherence emerging from dispersion

A grammar tuned not to certainty,
but to co-creation.

A vocabulary shaped not by authority,
but by attunement.

A syntax of resonance rather than control.

This is why the next language must be post-Whiteheadian:
 - for Whitehead gave us the metaphysics of process,
 - but not the continual grammar of lived expression. This is our job.

We now need words that are:

  • softer at the edges
  • luminous rather than rigid
  • relationally inflected
  • patterned like breath rather than brick
  • capable of carrying nuance without collapsing into ambiguity
  • oriented toward coherence without denying complexity

The new grammar must be:

poetic enough to feel,
and precise enough to think.

It must carry:

  • continuities of flow,
  • harmonic ontology,
  • intersubjective resonance,
  • microfutures,
  • weavings,
  • inflection-points,
  • communal articulation,
  • lived poiesis,
  • aesthetic coherence.

This is not ornamental.
It is metaphysical.

Because after the rupture, reality no longer presents itself as a structure to be mastered.
It appears instead as a field of potential coherence, waiting for new relational patterns to crystallize.

And language - the right kind of language - can become the medium for that crystallization.

This is the task of Essay II:
to name, evoke, and construct the metanoiaic grammar of becoming:

  • a grammar that arises not from the wound (Essay I),
  • but from the re- weaving which begins in the healing (Essay II).
  • A grammar not of rupture - but of re-attunement.
  • Not of destruction - but of delicate reconstruction.
  • Not of metalanguage - but of incarnational semantics
  • A language that enters the world not as explanation
  • but as a form of companionship.
The world after rupture does not need a map. It needs a vocabulary of resonance with which we can call each other  - and ourselves - back into the age-old practice of renewal, transformation, resurrection.




Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Ed Dobson - What He Has to Say About His Life-Threatening Illness Will Shake You to Your Core


Ed Dobson | ALS 

Ed Dobson preaching | 2011

Pastor Ed Dobson Is Facing A Life-Threatening Illness.
But What He Has To Say About It Will Shake Your Core
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/01/05/ed-dobson-inspiring-words_n_4537527.html

Ed Dobson is the Pastor emeritus, Calvary Church, Grand Rapids, MI
January 5, 2014 (updated January 23, 2014)

If Ed Dobson had given up on his life 13 years ago, he'd have missed walking his daughter down the aisle. He wouldn't have met his grandchildren. His story would have gone untold.

But he didn't give up. Instead, he's chosen to share his story to inspire others.

The 64-year-old pastor from Grand Rapids, Mich., was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS, or "Lou Gehrig's disease") more than a decade ago. He was given 2-5 years to live, according to the video above. Coming to terms with the diagnosis was hard -- but eventually, one fact dawned on him:

It ain't over, 'til it's over.

"I realize there is profound truth in that," Dobson says in this 10-minute clip from 2011. It's the first in a film series called "Ed's Story" that Dobson is still working on while continuing to battle ALS. The 2-year-old video continues to be shared widely online -- because everyone can use a reminder that life is worth fighting for.

If you don't have 10 minutes to spare, at least do this: Skip to the 7:55 mark. You'll be inspired. We promise.

"I didn't expect another Christmas, and now I've had 10," Dobson says towards the end of the video. "And the more I have the more I want. I have my life to share, my own story to share. One day it will be over, but it's not about how long I have left, it's about how I spend the time I do have."


Ed's Story: It Ain't Over



In It Ain't Over, the first film in the Ed's Story series, Ed Dobson reminds us that life isn't over yet and that we don't have to feel overwhelmed by the struggles we're facing today. Difficult news can sometimes make us feel like our lives are over. Ed shows us that we don't know the future, and that things may turn out quite differently from what we expect. edsstory.com

Ed Dobson - Faithfully Facing Mortality


Ed Dobson | ALS 

Ed Dobson preaching | 2011

'Oh, That I Had The Wings Of Dove! Faithfully Facing Mortality
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ed-dobson/do-not-worry-consider-the-birds_b_1093271.html

by Ed Dobson, Pastor emeritus, Calvary Church, Grand Rapids, MI
November 14, 2011 (updated January 14, 2012)

I was diagnosed with ALS in November, shortly before Thanksgiving. About a week later I was sitting on the porch of my house watching the first snowfall of the season. As I sat there I was beginning to sink into that darkness. I was thinking that this would be my last winter. I was thinking that this would be my last Christmas. I was hoping to make it to spring! As I sat there depressed, I noticed a bird on the bush outside the window. As I sat there watching, it flew away, and I thought, "I wish I could be that bird." And I thought that the birds have no cares, no issues and no ALS. Then immediately I was drawn to the words of the writer of the Hebrew Scriptures:

"My heart is in anguish within me:
the terrors of death assail me.
Fear and trembling have beset me
Horror has overwhelmed me.
I said, "oh, that I had the wings of dove!
I would fly away and be at rest --
I would flee far away
And stay in the desert."

-- Psalms 55:4-7

This is exactly how I feel. I love the language -- anguish, terrors, fear, trembling and horror. I'm not afraid of being dead. It's getting dead that bothers me. For me, "getting dead" involves choices about wheelchairs, communication assistance, feeding tubes and breathing assistance. It's not pleasant when I think of the future. Of course, I try to ignore it but the underlying reality is always there. I think it bothered the writer of this prayer as well. In the face of death and dying, I would like to be a bird. I would like to get away from this situation. I would like to feel like I am free. This passage expresses my deepest feelings.

I am a follower of Jesus. And I am fully aware of what Jesus says about worry. ("Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself," Matt. 5:34). Do you know how many people have come up to me and quoted this verse? Their attitude is that since Jesus said this, I should obey it. However, they have little to worry about. I am facing death and a life hereafter and I have a whole lot to worry about.

This quotation comes from an extended passage in which Jesus deals with the subject of worry. In the middle of this section on worry, Jesus refers to the birds. "Look at the birds of the air, they do not sow or reap or store in barns yet your heavenly father feeds them." So every time I see a bird, I am reminded that God takes care of them and if he takes care of them, he will take care of me. As I sit here writing, I am looking out the window and I see a bird. God takes care of that bird and ultimately the same God will take care of me. Of course, I'm not sure how God takes care of a bird. Neither am I sure of how God will take care of me. But since he takes care of the birds, I know he'll take care of me.

So every time I see a bird I have two options. First, I can want to be like the bird and fly away to be at rest. It's the longing to be set free from ALS. It's the longing to be set free from the terrors of death. Second, I can realize that God takes care of the birds and ultimately he will take care of me. Sometimes I go for option one. I long to live and be free. Other times I go for option two. I know God takes care of the birds and I know he will take care of me. My life is lived between these two options. On the one hand is the fear of death. And on the other hand the reality that God will see me through.

Ed Dobson - What Do You Do When You Know You Are Dying?


Ed Dobson | ALS 

Ed Dobson preaching | 2011


Sinking Into Darkness: What Do You Do When You Know You Are Dying?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ed-dobson/sinking-into-darkness_b_992653.html

by Ed Dobson, Pastor emeritus, Calvary Church, Grand Rapids, MI
October 5, 2011 (updated December 5, 2011)

It all began with twitching in my muscles. My wife insisted that I go see a doctor, but being a typical male, I ignored her. At the same time, I was having difficulty opening jars and cans when I was backpacking. I had just turned 50 years old, so I thought that this is what happens when you get old. Then one day, as I was writing out my sermon notes, it was as if my brain and my hand were not cooperating. So the next morning I was in church getting ready to preach. During the song right before I was scheduled to preach, I leaned over to a doctor who is a neurologist and told him about the twitching and the weakness. As I look back at that moment it's really ridiculous -- as if a doctor is going to diagnose me during the service right before I preach. He told me that I needed to go see him, like tomorrow.

Ed Dobson | Ministry to the Sick & Dying
So I went to see him. He spent about 15 minutes examining me and then asked me to come into his office. He told me there were several possibilities. First, my twitches could be benign fasciculations. He told me that everyone's muscles twitch and that maybe mine twitch more than the average (I was hoping that I was just a big twitcher rather than a little twitcher). Second, it's possible that I might have ALS. Once he mentioned ALS, my heart immediately sank. A few weeks later it was confirmed that I had ALS.

There is no way to describe the hopeless feeling of knowing that you only have a few years to live, and most of that time will be in the disabled condition. How does it feel?

  • It feels like you are sinking into the darkness.
  • It feels like you have left the warmth and sunshine and descended into a tomb.
  • It feels like you are in slow motion while the rest of the world speeds past.
  • It feels like you have a ringside seat to your own demise.
  • It feels overwhelming!

I have been a pastor all my life and have helped many people deal with difficult circumstances. But there is a huge difference between helping someone and dealing with it yourself. I thought that if I knew I was dying, I would really read the Bible. I found the opposite to be true. I can hardly pick up the Bible and read it at all.

I thought that if I knew I was dying, I would really pray. I found the opposite to be true. I can hardly pray at all.

I thought that if I knew I was dying, I would begin to think a lot about heaven. I found the opposite to be true. I found myself more and more attached to the people around me.

In the midst of my struggles, I began writing a book entitled "Prayers and Promises When Facing a Life-Threatening Illness." During my youngest son's second tour of Iraq, compliments of the Army, I sent him a copy of the book. The book contains a morning prayer and an evening promise. Throughout the book I tell stories of my own journey. My son told me that the stories would make wonderful short films.

Ed Dobson brushing his teeth | 2011

Lorna Dobson helping to dress her husband | 2011

Now I have really never been into films. I seldom watch a film and I sure never anticipated in being in a film. When my son returned, we began working on the idea of a series of short, 10-minute films. That idea is now a reality, seven short films in a series called Ed's Story. During the first year we worked on the films, we tried to identify the ideas that would give a sense of hope to people who have had the air knocked out of them. Early in my journey with this disease, I discovered that I did not want to read a lengthy book on suffering. I could only take information in short, concise and focused segments. These short films are designed to do just that. It only takes 10 minutes to watch one.

It is difficult for me to watch the films. When I watch a film I relive the situation over and over and over again. I've discovered that my emotions are just beneath the surface. When I watch the films, those emotions come rushing to the surface. So why did I do the films if it is difficult to watch them? I wanted to do something to give a sense of hope to people no matter what their circumstances. We are all human beings and part of our challenge is to face struggles and respond to them in a healthy way. I'm not sure I have always responded to my struggles in a healthy way, but at least I'm trying.