Quotes & Sayings


We, and creation itself, actualize the possibilities of the God who sustains the world, towards becoming in the world in a fuller, more deeper way. - R.E. Slater

There is urgency in coming to see the world as a web of interrelated processes of which we are integral parts, so that all of our choices and actions have [consequential effects upon] the world around us. - Process Metaphysician Alfred North Whitehead

Kurt Gödel's Incompleteness Theorem says (i) all closed systems are unprovable within themselves and, that (ii) all open systems are rightly understood as incomplete. - R.E. Slater

The most true thing about you is what God has said to you in Christ, "You are My Beloved." - Tripp Fuller

The God among us is the God who refuses to be God without us, so great is God's Love. - Tripp Fuller

According to some Christian outlooks we were made for another world. Perhaps, rather, we were made for this world to recreate, reclaim, redeem, and renew unto God's future aspiration by the power of His Spirit. - R.E. Slater

Our eschatological ethos is to love. To stand with those who are oppressed. To stand against those who are oppressing. It is that simple. Love is our only calling and Christian Hope. - R.E. Slater

Secularization theory has been massively falsified. We don't live in an age of secularity. We live in an age of explosive, pervasive religiosity... an age of religious pluralism. - Peter L. Berger

Exploring the edge of life and faith in a post-everything world. - Todd Littleton

I don't need another reason to believe, your love is all around for me to see. – Anon

Thou art our need; and in giving us more of thyself thou givest us all. - Khalil Gibran, Prayer XXIII

Be careful what you pretend to be. You become what you pretend to be. - Kurt Vonnegut

Religious beliefs, far from being primary, are often shaped and adjusted by our social goals. - Jim Forest

We become who we are by what we believe and can justify. - R.E. Slater

People, even more than things, need to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed; never throw out anyone. – Anon

Certainly, God's love has made fools of us all. - R.E. Slater

An apocalyptic Christian faith doesn't wait for Jesus to come, but for Jesus to become in our midst. - R.E. Slater

Christian belief in God begins with the cross and resurrection of Jesus, not with rational apologetics. - Eberhard Jüngel, Jürgen Moltmann

Our knowledge of God is through the 'I-Thou' encounter, not in finding God at the end of a syllogism or argument. There is a grave danger in any Christian treatment of God as an object. The God of Jesus Christ and Scripture is irreducibly subject and never made as an object, a force, a power, or a principle that can be manipulated. - Emil Brunner

“Ehyeh Asher Ehyeh” means "I will be that who I have yet to become." - God (Ex 3.14) or, conversely, “I AM who I AM Becoming.”

Our job is to love others without stopping to inquire whether or not they are worthy. - Thomas Merton

The church is God's world-changing social experiment of bringing unlikes and differents to the Eucharist/Communion table to share life with one another as a new kind of family. When this happens, we show to the world what love, justice, peace, reconciliation, and life together is designed by God to be. The church is God's show-and-tell for the world to see how God wants us to live as a blended, global, polypluralistic family united with one will, by one Lord, and baptized by one Spirit. – Anon

The cross that is planted at the heart of the history of the world cannot be uprooted. - Jacques Ellul

The Unity in whose loving presence the universe unfolds is inside each person as a call to welcome the stranger, protect animals and the earth, respect the dignity of each person, think new thoughts, and help bring about ecological civilizations. - John Cobb & Farhan A. Shah

If you board the wrong train it is of no use running along the corridors of the train in the other direction. - Dietrich Bonhoeffer

God's justice is restorative rather than punitive; His discipline is merciful rather than punishing; His power is made perfect in weakness; and His grace is sufficient for all. – Anon

Our little [biblical] systems have their day; they have their day and cease to be. They are but broken lights of Thee, and Thou, O God art more than they. - Alfred Lord Tennyson

We can’t control God; God is uncontrollable. God can’t control us; God’s love is uncontrolling! - Thomas Jay Oord

Life in perspective but always in process... as we are relational beings in process to one another, so life events are in process in relation to each event... as God is to Self, is to world, is to us... like Father, like sons and daughters, like events... life in process yet always in perspective. - R.E. Slater

To promote societal transition to sustainable ways of living and a global society founded on a shared ethical framework which includes respect and care for the community of life, ecological integrity, universal human rights, respect for diversity, economic justice, democracy, and a culture of peace. - The Earth Charter Mission Statement

Christian humanism is the belief that human freedom, individual conscience, and unencumbered rational inquiry are compatible with the practice of Christianity or even intrinsic in its doctrine. It represents a philosophical union of Christian faith and classical humanist principles. - Scott Postma

It is never wise to have a self-appointed religious institution determine a nation's moral code. The opportunities for moral compromise and failure are high; the moral codes and creeds assuredly racist, discriminatory, or subjectively and religiously defined; and the pronouncement of inhumanitarian political objectives quite predictable. - R.E. Slater

God's love must both center and define the Christian faith and all religious or human faiths seeking human and ecological balance in worlds of subtraction, harm, tragedy, and evil. - R.E. Slater

In Whitehead’s process ontology, we can think of the experiential ground of reality as an eternal pulse whereby what is objectively public in one moment becomes subjectively prehended in the next, and whereby the subject that emerges from its feelings then perishes into public expression as an object (or “superject”) aiming for novelty. There is a rhythm of Being between object and subject, not an ontological division. This rhythm powers the creative growth of the universe from one occasion of experience to the next. This is the Whiteheadian mantra: “The many become one and are increased by one.” - Matthew Segall

Without Love there is no Truth. And True Truth is always Loving. There is no dichotomy between these terms but only seamless integration. This is the premier centering focus of a Processual Theology of Love. - R.E. Slater

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Note: Generally I do not respond to commentary. I may read the comments but wish to reserve my time to write (or write from the comments I read). Instead, I'd like to see our community help one another and in the helping encourage and exhort each of us towards Christian love in Christ Jesus our Lord and Savior. - re slater

Monday, November 10, 2025

After the Rupture: Choosing to Heal, Essay II, Part A



AFTER THE RUPTURE:
CHOOSING TO HEAL

Toward a Metanoiaic Grammar of Processual Becoming
[ A Post-Lacanian Analysis ]

ESSAY II, PART A

by R.E. Slater & ChatGPT-5


We are beings shaped by language
yet never finished in the process.
Selves which are continuously shaped
by new grammars of presence,
beauty, and worth.

- re slater & chatgpt



Preface: After the Rupture

There are moments when language breaks - not because we misuse it, but because the world shifts beneath it. The vocabulary we trusted becomes too small. Our phrases, once solid, crumble in our hands. What we thought were truths dissolve into atmospheres of uncertainty. And yet something in us refuses silence.

This essay begins in that fragile interval between breakage and healing...

  • Every living language eventually meets its limit.
  • Not because reality stops speaking,
  • but because our inherited vocabularies have stopped responding.

When a symbolic system becomes rigid, it no longer can describe the world - rather, it defends itself from the world. When this happens, the first task is not to construct something new, because nothing can be reconstructed until you first deconstruct one's inherited language that has become unuseful, outmoded, outdated.

For classicists (Platonic Christian theology) and modernists (evangelical Christians), this is not a return further into transcendence (on one side of the spectrum), nor a retreat into skepticism (on the other side of the spectrum), but an an invitation into a new grammar of becoming - a grammar born from re-examining one's inherited environment, comparing it to one's current settings, and finally, reconfiguring one's self so that it better resonates with the future hope we had once borne within us.

This process is known as re-construction. It comes after a period (usually longish rather than short) or deconstruction. Both processes will take time... and energy... usually vast amounts of time and energy. Why? because it has hit the "nerve of our beliefs. Our being. The shape of our destiny. Our becoming. It is never easy. Always disruptive. And will "un-nerve" friends and family.

There will be sharp feelings of pain, betrayal, abandonment, lostness, perplexity. Deconstruction is hard. Very hard. Many abandon it's process as soon as such feelings appear. They might not return to their "old ways" but they may exchange one path for another. Paths which abort the process of deconstruction and never, ever allow re-construction. Why? Because healthy reconstructions require complete (or completing) deconstructive periods in our lives. The one comes before the other. If not, reconstructions cannot come. They are simply perpetually replaced for lesser paths, lesser choices. Or, to use other words... perhaps newer addictions, unsatisfying substitutes, and livelihoods of emptiness.

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Essay I through its Parts A, B, C, traced the necessity of breaking open static, outmoded, useless symbolic structures. Structures which require deconstruction. 

Essay II seeks a newer language which comes after a personal breakage - one of renewal moving towards a more hopeful reconstruction. It will require patience. Discernment. Experimentation. Trial-and-Error.
  • This new language must be full enough to hold complexity,
  • strong enough to shape coherence,
  • and alive enough to honor the movement of becoming.
In this existential tension of renewal and promised healing will come a new language of learning to  form and articulate a new grammar.
  • One that is neither entrenched, stressed, nor plagued by denial;
  • one that sees modernism for what it was;
  • sees postmodernism's helpful critique of modernism's fractures;
  • and begins to inhabit metamodern insights of renewal and revival.
Here a re-weaving of feeling and thought will come into play; new relations and insights will provide background and examination; feelings of being present in the moment ("immanence") will find lodging; and the child-like use of playground imagination will emerge with new possibilities and opportunities.

This processual metanoiaic grammar is not a grammar of certainty. It requires uncertainty and doubt in order to move from one's past to one's future. But is a grammar which can accommodate difference, tension, and helping 20-20 critique; traits which will be useful in order to move from the personal angst of existential fragmentation to the feeling of wholeness and healing.

Thus will begin the process of feeling more attuned in a world that is continually re-forming itself day-by-day, year-by-year, generation-by-generation, across a world of difference, plurality, community, beliefs, religions, cultures, and immense challenges.

This is the threshold at which Essay II begins.




Introduction: Why We Need A New Grammar After Breakage

When a symbolic world opens - whether personally, culturally, or spiritually - language cannot survive the fracturing event. It changes. It less sure, more porous, seeks for greater expansiveness. Words that once carried authority now feel rigid and confining. Old frameworks once so comforting and protective can no longer absorb new experiences presented to it. Sentences that used to describe reality begin to feel like fossilized artifacts and relics from another time, era, culture.

Rupture clears the atmosphere. It demands personal movement. Personal reconfiguration. More helpful people, resources and experiences in our lives.

But what comes after this breakage?

After personal, communal, or societal ruptures, the world might demand immediate clinging to the old ways, old assurances, old beliefs, but these are broken. They have evaporated. They are gone. Nor can new paths, assurances, or beliefs be formed without first undergoing a fuller process of deconstruction to help clear the air, see more than one path, understand the choices around us.

More simply, a fractured system only presently requires a new grammar expansive enough to help it articulate the coming deconstructive period. And from that difficult period will come yet another grammar to help explore - and perhaps inhabit (but not too soon) - a reconstructive phase. One that is healthful, nourishing, nurturing, loving, kind, good, and generative.

This "grammatical" shift will be subtle but oftentimes decisive. One in which:

  • We no longer use language to impose order;
    but use it to participate in order’s re-formation (as we inhabit re-formation).

  • We no longer use language to defend positions;
    but use it to explore relational coherence (as we explore and experiment).

  • We no longer seek to name our experience;
    but learn to accompany what we are becoming.

Such deconstructive periods require a new linguistic posture -  something neither rigidly academic nor loosely mystical. Something more like:

  • an aesthetic intelligence,
  • a contemplative practice,
  • an attuned (and perhaps, participatory) creativity.

A language capable of:

  • carrying nuance without collapsing into confusion,
  • generating coherence without erasing complexity,
  • speaking with the world, not at it,
  • weaving insight and presence into a shared horizon.

This essay proposes such a grammar -
a metanoiaic grammar of becoming -
not as a fixed system,
but as an evolving mode of expression for a world that refuses to remain static.

We will thus explore:

  • how meaning reassembles itself in constellations,
  • how communities find coherence after fragmentation,
  • how identity becomes a relational unfolding,
  • how thought begins to bloom again after collapse,
  • how valuative beauty becomes a form of guidance,
  • how language itself learns to accompany what is emergent.

This is the movement from rupture to resonance,
from broken syntax to living poiesis.

Essay I told us why the old language could not hold.
Essay II begins the gentle work of learning how to speak again.




I. After Rupture: The Necessity for a New Grammar

After a symbolic world cracks open, what remains is not silence.
It is resonance seeking a voice, a way, an expression.

A kind of shimmering promise with no clear road to follow.
Language hasn’t disappeared - it is becoming more elastic, more permeable, more porous to possibility.

The old vocabulary - the static, structural, defensive one - no longer fits.
It feels brittle, as if speaking it re-injures the world we have just exposed and gutted.

Rupture doesn’t erase language.
Rupture unfastens language.

  • Words may wander.
  • Meaning will loosen.
  • Sentences no longer march to expected cadences - they drift and wander.
  • Categories melt, becoming more pliable - like clay after the kiln cracks.

Something happens in this aftermath:
language ceases to be an authority
and functions more like a testing medium.

  • Not a mirror.
  • Not a cage.
  • Not a metalanguage.
  • But a field of relational, experiential, possibility.

This is the moment where a new grammar becomes necessary -

  • not to rebuild the old order,
  • not to impose a new order,
  • but to give shape to a new eventful becoming.

We are no longer speaking about the world.
But hopefully we are learning to speak with the world.
To be present in-and-with the world.
even as the world is itself in process of ceaseless becoming (both good and bad)

  • This requires a different linguistic mood.
  • Not the diagnostic tone of critique.
  • Not the rigid tone of a closed system.
  • Not the transcendent tone of metalanguage.

But something more like:

  • a cosmic whisper
  • a relational weave
  • a poiesis of mutuality
  • a constellation of feeling
  • an aesthetic coherence emerging from dispersion

A grammar tuned not to certainty,
but to co-creation.

A vocabulary shaped not by authority,
but by attunement.

A syntax of resonance rather than control.

This is why the next language must be post-Whiteheadian:
 - for Whitehead gave us the metaphysics of process,
 - but not the continual grammar of lived expression. This is our job.

We now need words that are:

  • softer at the edges
  • luminous rather than rigid
  • relationally inflected
  • patterned like breath rather than brick
  • capable of carrying nuance without collapsing into ambiguity
  • oriented toward coherence without denying complexity

The new grammar must be:

poetic enough to feel,
and precise enough to think.

It must carry:

  • continuities of flow,
  • harmonic ontology,
  • intersubjective resonance,
  • microfutures,
  • weavings,
  • inflection-points,
  • communal articulation,
  • lived poiesis,
  • aesthetic coherence.

This is not ornamental.
It is metaphysical.

Because after the rupture, reality no longer presents itself as a structure to be mastered.
It appears instead as a field of potential coherence, waiting for new relational patterns to crystallize.

And language - the right kind of language - can become the medium for that crystallization.

This is the task of Essay II:
to name, evoke, and construct the metanoiaic grammar of becoming:

  • a grammar that arises not from the wound (Essay I),
  • but from the re- weaving which begins in the healing (Essay II).
  • A grammar not of rupture - but of re-attunement.
  • Not of destruction - but of delicate reconstruction.
  • Not of metalanguage - but of incarnational semantics
  • A language that enters the world not as explanation
  • but as a form of companionship.
The world after rupture does not need a map. It needs a vocabulary of resonance with which we can call each other  - and ourselves - back into the age-old practice of renewal, transformation, resurrection.




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