Conference Notes: Process Thought at a New Threshold

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John Cobb invites the process movement to reflect on the possibility that we are at a new threshold. Maybe, at last, the thinking we have done about creative transformation and ecological civilization will capture the imagination of millions and make a real contribution to radical change of collective behavior. At this gathering we will consider how we can work together to respond to the call to save the world. It’s worth trying.

Conference Schedule

Process Thought at a New Threshold

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October 31, 9:00 AM – 12:00 PM

9:00: Welcome and Opening Remarks: John Cobb

How has the work of the process community expanded since 2015?

9:10: Center for Process Studies: Andrew Schwartz
9:15: Pando Populus: Eugene Shirley
9:20: Institute for Ecological Civilization: Philip Clayton
9:25: Cobb Institute: John Fahey

What is happening that suggests greater openness to process ideas?

9:30: Philosophy: Dan Dombrowski
9:40: Christian Theology: Thomas Oord
9:50: Spiritual But Not Religious: Damian Geddry
10:00: Interfaith, Arts, and Spirituality: Jay McDaniel
10:10: Science: Matthew Segall

10:20: BREAK

10:30: Education: Richard Rose
10:40: Economics: Mark Anielski
10:50: Agriculture: Sung Sohn
11:00: Mass Media: Philip Clayton
11:10: Younger Generation: Kathleen Jacobson Reeves

How can we respond effectively to the new openness?

11:20: Small Group Discussions
Led by Pat Beiting, Ignacio Castuera, Louis Chase, Kathleen

Jacobson Reeves, Lynne de Jonge, Carol Johnston, Elaine
Padilla, Richard Rose, Jeanyne Slettom, and Bonnie Tarwater

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Conference Notes

Process Thought at a New Threshold

Healing people ponder things deeply

12:00    Late Start. Equipment Malfunction re Group Zoom Mtg.

             Attendance - 100

12:08    Welcome and Opening Remarks by John Cobb

             David Griffin remarked of the 21st Century that it would be the "Process Century" or 

             "Whitehead Century" begun in Russia (1970s), China (1990s), America + the World (2015).

How has the work of the Process community expanded since 2015?

12:13    Andrew Schwartz, Center for Process Studies (1973)

             Observed: Modernism = Mechanistic & Reductionistic Philosophies, Industries, Societies

              Postmodernism = An Intersection of Change led by Process Thought

12:19    Eugene Shirley, Chief Sustainability Engineer of Pando Populus, Los Angeles County

             Networks with municipalities and mid-central California counties.

             Central Focus: Creation of the "Hyper-Locality" of Ecological Sustainability

             Connected to Cal Tech University; is part of ist CSO Task Force Business to Community

             Chief Concern: Sustainability + Justice Models + Social Services

12:23    Philip Clayton, Institute for Ecological Civilization (ECI)

             Core Belief: Growing Ecological Societies which are Post-Capitalism + Post-Socialism

             Crucial to this belief: Promoting long term wellbeing for people and planet

             Book: The New Possible, by Philip Clayton

             Recommended Organization beside ECI - www.oneproject.org

             Process: Hope ---> Societal Impact ---> Build Networks of Collaboration

             No time to answer the questions:

                > What does Process mean?

                > Why does Process matter?

12:29   John Fahey, The Cobb Institute

            Process & Practice: Process Thought vs. Mechanistic/Reductionistic Mindset 

            Interest: Creation of Local, Compassionate, Sustainable Communities

            Recommended Video: Cobb Institute - PostModern Development in China

  

What is happening that suggests greater openness to process ideas?

12:38    Dan Dombrowski - Philosophy

              Process Philosophy speaks from everything from relationships to metaphysics

                    to cosmology to minority voices

              Process Philosophy is being incorporated into:

• Analytical philosophies
• Continental philosophies
• PanPsychism groups
• Comparative Religions globally
• Metaphysics, Ontology, Epistemology
• Physical and Social Sciences
• History, Arts, and Literature
• Environmental philosophies
• Ethics, economic, and Political philosophies
• Social Justice, Equality, Race, Gender, etc

12:46    Thomas Jay Oord, Christian Theologian and Author

              Prominent theologian of Process-based Open & Relational Theology

              Author of recently popular published title: God Can't

              Audience: 20-40 year olds; Ex-Evangelicals; Pentacostalists; Catholics;

                    Ex-Fundamentalists; Nones & Dones; Spiritual but not Religious;

                    the Disillusioned and Deconstructing of the world

              Central Theme: God's love cannot stop a world of sin without overruling

                     creaturely freewill; God can, and will, do everything possible to partner

                     and influence a freewill creation but cannot exercise His own divine 

                     agency over that of creation. This is known as the problem of evil and

                     justice (known theologically as the problem of theodicy

              Person of Note: Tripp Fuller who has been speaking on podcasts the last 12 years

              Open & Relational Theology

                     Cross-sects with evangelical open theism, Wesleyanism, feminism, et al

                     The ORT perspective is gaining a voice in evangelical churches

              Analytical Philosophy and Theology is becoming more open to ORT and 

                     Process Theology, Process Panpsychism, Process Evolution, etc.

               The Organization, Center for Open & Relational Theology, is visited and

                     used by Christians, Muslims, Jews, even Atheists re pros and cons

12:56    Damian Geddry, Spiritual but not Religious

                The Spiritual but not Religious category is another phrase for the "Nones

                     and Dones" of the Christian Church (approx 25% of the United States)

                The SBNR category rejects a persecuting, judgmental, condemning God
                Many are from hardline denominations and fundament bible churches
                They reject a God who has fated us with our future
                Of a god who uses evil and suffering to harm/direct/rule the world
                They may be considered mindful souls, contemplatives, emphasizing
                      soul-cycles, body-soul spiritual healing new age methods, TM,
                      meditative yoga, meditative nature soul healing, etc
                They are very open to a God who is relational, natural, interactional, etc
                They see a responsible freewill as a center to future societal interaction
                They value beauty, truth, art, peace, meaning, purpose, suffering, evil
                They see God and mankind and nature as interactive processes together in life

1:04    Jay McDaniel, Interfaith, Arts, and Spirituality

                Mentions a book, "The New Openess" re Process Theology

                Mentions Bob Measle re "What is Process?" which approaches Process

                    theology from a non-theistic, spiritually engaged perspective

                States that Process Theology is not limited to Christianity alone but is

                    a universal process found throughout the world, its disciplines, and 

                    livelihoods.

                As examples, mentions art and music (sic, Miley Cyrus), film makers, etc

1:14    Matthew Segall, Science

                Shares how science and the bible, cosmology and metaphysics have become

                    fragmented from one another and how Process Philosophy aka Whitehead

                    is helping to heal the rifts

                Shares how Process Thought speaks to the rhythms of nature, to human

                    civilization with one another

                How Process Thought is an Integral Theory of Everything that has gone on

                    before and will go on into the future. That Process is found in all the 

                    complex interlinks, expressions, and relationships as a holistic cosmic

                    network spun out from the heart of God as a building block of becoming,

                    being, and purpose.

                That the universe is not a giant entropy system, clock, or computer, running

                    like a Newtonian mechanistic and reductionistic machine. But that it is

                    living, chaotic, random, and being driven by its own internal process 

                    affairs imaged in the Creator and struggling to come to fruition.

                That Whitehead envisaged holism, comprehensive process cosmology and

                    metaphysics this is always novel, unique, and never alone in its vast 

                    matrix array of relational connections unlike how the 19th, 20th, and

                    even early 21st century philosophers, scientists, and theologians thought

                    of the cosmos/world/nature/humanity/civilization/society/etc

                That cosmology is a world view and branches its networks in complex

                    arrays of living, dying, propagating forms of new process networks

                    moment-by-moment everywhere and at once.

                That physics is re-envisioning quantum physics as a process-based event

                    becoming described as a Process Cosmology (David Bowne) where

                    time-and-space is even being envisioned as extensions and intensions

                    of conscreascing time event (where time's identity is not in the particle

                    or wave, but in its relationship to other relationships; that time cannot

                    exist alone. That it must have interaction if it is to be).

                Bruce Dayman (sp?) and David Deimer (sp?) are using Process Biology

                    as a way to describe the "Biogenesis" of first originating earth life

                    not through the salt water seas but around the surface geysers of earth's

                    freshwater pools. That evolutionary life can best be described as a 

                    series of every growing complex relationships between "being and event".

BREAK

1:30        Richard Rose, Education

1:40        Mark Anielski, Economics

1:50        Sung Sohn, Agriculture

2:00        Philip Clayton, Mass Media

2:10        Kathleen Jacobson Reeves, Focus of Younger Generations

BREAK

SMALL GROUP DISCUSSIONS

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First Letter by John Cobb Conference Invitation

PROCESS THOUGHT AT A NEW THRESHOLD

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Date: October 31, 2020

Time: 9 am to 12 noon

ZOOM Meeting

An Invitation from John Cobb

In the forties and fifties, the neonaturalist faculty in the Divinity School of the University of Chicago provided a community in which a process understanding was nurtured. By the sixties, the Divinity School joined the mainstream, and the academic disciplines tightened their control of university curricula. There seemed to be no future for the study of Whitehead.

In the avoidance of disappearance there have been two thresholds. The first was institutional. We established a journal (1970) so that scholarly discussion could continue. And we established an official Center for Process Studies (1973). The journal, edited by Lewis Ford, emphasized philosophy and philosophical theology. The Center, co-founded by David Griffin and me, focused on important topics from the process perspective. It cultivated an interest in process thought in many fields.

All of this was extremely marginal in every field. Nevertheless, it created a unique community, directly contrary to the disciplinary fragmentation of the university. Whereas the university disciplines prided themselves on their academic purity, the process community had, as its primary concern, “saving the world.” It adopted from China the term “ecological civilization” to name the alternative (saved) world for which Whitehead’s thought called. It included philosophy and theology, but its greatest success was in officially atheistic China.

By 2015, I thought we could reasonably claim to have an alternative to the university. We held a conference showing that on 80 topics process thinkers were working at the cutting edge, dealing with their assumptions. I thought we could also show that what we offered was urgently needed for practical purposes as well as theoretical.

In the following five years, the urgency of change became more widely manifest. Society needed to move away from the value free compartmentalized academic disciplines to a passionately committed holistic vision of the world we need to create. This could happen only with the change of key assumptions offered by process philosophy. Our conference had shown we were ready to help, but the number (outside of China) who cared enough to look were in the thousands.

Nevertheless, we made real progress toward a public role. Process organizations began working with cities, counties, and even states. Locally they gained public visibility and their contributions have been appreciated. But in the national public arena, we remained largely invisible and unheard. Despite our still marginal status, can we help? Can we reach millions? That possibility may be emerging as the global crisis forces itself on the world’s attention. Many of us feel that the cultural climate is changing

dramatically, and that many more people are ready to hear what we have to offer if we find ways of getting the ideas to them. This is the threshold that we now may have the opportunity to cross.

Our chances of crossing may be increased if many of us working in different fields and in diverse ways work together as one community to make the needed changes. That is why I have planned with the heads of major American process organizations a mini conference to help us shift our thinking and perhaps our priorities in ways that increase chances of success. First, we will hear from leaders of four process organizations. What have they achieved in the last five years? In my view, quite a lot. I think we have become ready for “the big time.” Is “the big time” ready for us? We will hear from astute observers in ten fields whether the time for process thought has come.

We’ll begin with philosophy. In recent years it has certainly improved on the European continent. In the non-academic community of thinkers, it has improved in the United States. Even the American philosophical guilds are more open to ideas important to process thought. Can we hope for a major breakthrough in the U.S.?

 I propose that we hear about the thinking of church people, and here I consider the success of Tom Oord’s “God Can’t” as a real breakthrough. We also need to hear from those with spiritual interests separate from the Christian churches. Finally, among liberal religious thinkers who are interested in interfaith, political, and cultural matters, Jay McDaniel will tell us where process thought stands.

The physical sciences have an immense influence on our world view. They contribute especially to cosmology. Whitehead thought the time had come for a changed science and cosmology. The scientific guilds have not changed, but their limitations have become more apparent. Might they shift from substances to events? Is there anything the process community can do to increase the chances of change? Matthew Segall will share his expectations.

The survival of whole populations depends on the products of agriculture. The modernization of agriculture has been a catastrophe. Awareness of the destructiveness of factory farming and raising animals for meat has increased. Interest in regenerative farming has increased. Process thought can undergird this interest philosophically. Has the time come to show the importance of how we think for what we eat?

Most Americans are not, today, enthusiastic about the American or the global economy. Some of them recognize that the problems are partly rooted in the dominant economic theories. Although academic economics still largely supports the current neoliberal economy, that concentrates wealth in fewer and fewer hands, there is much greater openness to call for changes that were barely discussable in the past. Can we hope for an economics that strengthens local communities?

Our minds are largely shaped by our many years in schools. Schooling has been shaped by modern beliefs such as the Kantian separation of facts and values. Dissatisfaction with the results increases. Is there a chance for a different kind of education oriented to the needs of students and of the world?

For generations young people have known that collective human behavior has been unsustainable. But more important for them has been doing well in the present context. The present young adult generation seems to be aware that it is their future that is at stake. Their commitment to change seems deeply rooted. Can process thinkers form an alliance with this community of shared concern?

We will conclude by considering quite directly the question of access to the determinative media. Even if there is change, those who control the media may contain by excluding it from widespread knowledge. Might process thought circumvent this in some way? The news that Philip Clayton’s ECI had partnered with a major organization gives promise that the idea, and eve the content, of ecological civilization may get a wide public hearing. If the news is good on many of these fronts, we have the opportunity and the responsibility to find new ways to spread the word. To conclude the conference, we will break up into smaller groups to start the conversation about how in any and all these fields to reach a much larger audience. The goal is to arouse enough people that politicians will pay attention. In conclusion, I will mention three possible projects that might help us reach more people.

We might form alliances with other organizations that are already contributing to that goal in ways we are not. This could make clear that ecological civilization is an inclusive vision of the world we need. It would certainly not be racist or sexist, but other organizations are doing much more on those fronts than are we. We think all humans should have rights, but we may be critical of the excessively individualist emphasis. Is there an organization working for individual rights that recognizes the importance of community? We certainly favor peace, and we can probably find a peace organization that is very congenial to our understanding of ecological civilization.

I have been thinking for some time about a website that invited wide participation in proposing how ecological civilization would differ from modernity: a kind of Wikipedia of ecological civilization.

Universities may be in a vulnerable situation and willing to consider a change in curriculum. Some of them may consider that the global crisis is so serious that they should allow it to affect what they teach and the way they teach it. There have been encouraging developments at Willamette and LaVerne. We might work together to persuade other universities to experiment. We think there are students who would be attracted to a university that was working to save the world and to prepare students to take part.

Our meeting will be on Saturday, October 31, from 9 to 12. Please join us. We are called to do what we can to save the world. Maybe, at last, the thinking we have done about this will capture the imagination of millions and make a real contribution to radical change of collective behavior. It’s worth trying.

- John Cobb

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Second Letter from John Cobb Conference

PROCESS THOUGHT AT A NEW THRESHOLD

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Date: October 31, 2020

Time: 9 am to 12 noon

ZOOM Meeting

An Invitation from John Cobb

Dear Fellow Members of the Process Movement,

I hope that you have all received and read my earlier letter about a conference on preparing ourselves to respond to a new openness to process ideas and especially the idea of ecological civilization. I hope that many of you have reserved the time, October 31, 2020, from 9am to 12pm. I am writing now with a few more details about the program, and am attaching a schedule.

The purpose is to get many of us thinking about how to get the attention of a much wider public, and to communicate the most relevant and urgent ideas to it. I speak of urgency because of my judgment that the time that changing policies will help very much is short. I encourage you to listen to Pope Francis’ recent Ted talk. I am very grateful that, under the rubric of “integral ecology,” he shares our concern for transforming society and our sense of urgency. What is most hopeful is that he already addresses the people of the world.

We are experiencing a mild foretaste of an ever-worsening future unless there are profound changes. The process community has been reflecting about the needed changes longer than any other. We believe that, if we are heard, we can help, and there may be a real chance of being heard. Philip Clayton has co-edited an important new book called The New Possible, a title that would have worked for this conference. Zack Walsh told us in our weekly gathering with friends of the Institute that his colleagues in Silicon Valley are influenced by process-relational thinking and know that we must shift in that direction. But unless we use the new opportunity wisely, the door will slam shut. Hence, the urgency!

The most important part of the conference will be the breakout groups at the end. We hope they will begin the conversation about what we need to do, and that all of us will continue that conversation and find ways to implement our creative ideas. One realistic topic for discussion is whether the process community should seek to work together or any one project.

Actually, the conversation is already beginning. Andrew Schwartz wrote me that a correspondent made the point that to influence most people in any topic in which they are not specialists, the point must be made in a single step. Speaking for myself, I find that hard. Process thinking believes that everything is connected and that, therefore, all adequate explanations are complex. But Andrew is right that we must learn how to make crucial points simply and well.

For example, a crucial need is to shift from a global economy to local ones. I have been making that point since the eighties, but I have made it as part of complex proposals for reorganizing society. Recently the idea of a local economy has caught on. The leader of this very promising movement is Helena NorbertHodge.

The way she promotes it, as in the excellent film, “The Economics of Happiness,” leaves many questions unanswered. But in its simple presentation, it is having an influence on the way cities think of their economy. Of course, actual efforts to localize will bring many issues to the foreground, and we may be able to help. But simplifying is required in order to get cities to ask those questions. I must learn new skills, and I do not think I am alone, especially among academics. We have ten people who have agreed to lead or facilitate discussion after the presentations. In my previous letter I briefly described some possible projects. The purpose of including this was to stimulate imagination, not to gain priority for these proposals. Please begin thinking now. Then come and get a clearer idea of what we are already doing and what the openings seem to be in diverse fields. Be prepared to think boldly, as if life depends on you. Perhaps it does.

- John B. Cobb, Jr.

Pooh Bear and Mental Health

 

Pooh woke up that morning, and, for reasons that he didn't entirely understand, couldn't stop the tears from coming. He sat there in bed, his little body shaking, and he cried, and cried, and cried.

Amidst his sobs, the phone rang.

It was Piglet.

"Oh Piglet," said Pooh, between sobs, in response to his friend's gentle enquiry as to how he was doing. "I just feel so Sad. So, so, Sad, almost like I might not ever be happy again. And I know that I shouldn't be feeling like this. I know there are so many people who have it worse off than me, and so I really have no right to be crying, with my lovely house, and my lovely garden, and the lovely woods all around me. But oh, Piglet: I am just SO Sad."

Piglet was silent for a while, as Pooh's ragged sobbing filled the space between them. Then, as the sobs turned to gasps, he said, kindly: "You know, it isn't a competition."

"What isn't a competition?" asked a confused sounding Pooh.

"Sadness. Fear. Grief," said Piglet. "It's a mistake we often make, all of us. To think that, because there are people who are worse off than us, that that somehow invalidates how we are feeling. But that simply isn't true. You have as much right to feel unhappy as the next person; and, Pooh - and this is the really important bit - you also have just as much right to get the help that you need."

"Help? What help?" asked Pooh. "I don't need help, Piglet.

"Do I?"

Pooh and Piglet talked for a long time, and Piglet suggested to Pooh some people that he might be able to call to talk to, because when you are feeling sad, one of the most important things is not to let all of the sad become trapped inside you, but instead to make sure that you have someone who can help you, who can talk through with you how the sad is making you feeling, and some of the things that might be able to be done to support you with that.

What's more, Piglet reminded Pooh that this support is there for absolutely everyone, that there isn't a minimum level of sad that you have to be feeling before you qualify to speak to someone.

Finally, Piglet asked Pooh to open his window and look up at the sky, and Pooh did so.

"You see that sky?" Piglet asked his friend. "Do you see the blues and the golds and that big fluffy cloud that looks like a sheep eating a carrot?"

Pooh looked, and he could indeed see the blues and the golds and the big fluffy cloud that looked like a sheep eating a carrot.

"You and I," continued Piglet, "we are both under that same sky. And so, whenever the sad comes, I want you to look up at that sky, and know that, however far apart we might be physically...we are also, at the same time, together. Perhaps, more together than we have ever been before."

"Do you think this will ever end?" asked Pooh in a small voice.

"This too shall pass," confirmed Piglet. "And I promise you, one day, you and I shall once again sit together, close enough to touch, sharing a little smackerel of something...underneath that blue gold sky."

We all need a piglet in our lives.

- Joanne Wellington

We All Need A Piglet In Our Lives Sometimes!

by Joanne Wellington, February 11, 2020

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Mental health matters.

I really, really think the secret

to being loved is to love.

And the secret to being interesting

is to be interested.

And the secret to having a friend

is being a friend.

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We all carry a little something...

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Pooh Bear – Piglet and Pooh

 by Jacqueline, May 18, 2018

This was posted on Facebook as part of Mental Health Awareness week. I felt I wanted to share it to help eradicate the stigma which still surrounds mental health issues. - Jacqueline

“Piglet?” said Pooh.

“Yes Pooh?” said Piglet.

“Do you ever have days when everything feels… Not Very Okay At All? And sometimes you don’t even know why you feel Not Very Okay At All, you just know that you do.”

Piglet nodded his head sagely.

“Oh yes,” said Piglet. “I definitely have those days.” 

“Really?” said Pooh in surprise.

“I would never have thought that. You always seem so happy and like you have got everything in life all sorted out."

“Ah,” said Piglet. “Well here’s the thing. There are two things that you need to know, Pooh.

"The first thing is that even those pigs, and bears, and people, who seem to have got everything in life all sorted out… they probably haven’t.

"Actually, everyone has days when they feel Not Very Okay At All. Some people are just better at hiding it than others.

“And the second thing you need to know… is that it’s okay to feel Not Very Okay At All. It can be quite normal, in fact. And all you need to do, on those days when you feel Not Very Okay At All, is come and find me, and tell me. Don’t ever feel like you have to hide the fact you’re feeling Not Very Okay At All. Always come and tell me. Because I will always be there.”

- Jacqueline

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Eeyore and the Damp and Dreary Day

It was a damp and dreary day

and Pooh and Piglet were eager to get back to Piglet's house and warm their feet by the fire .

Nevertheless, the two friends trudged through the carpet of leaves which had begun to cover the ground of the Hundred Acre Wood and decided first to check on Eeyore.

"Hello Eeyore!" said Pooh and Piglet when they came upon him.

"Hello Pooh and Piglet," said Eeyore, in a sad, sorrowful kind of voice.

"Is everything okay, Eeyore?" asked Piglet.

"Oh," said Eeyore. "Well," said Eeyore. "No," said Eeyore .

"Oh Eeyore," said Pooh, looking at the miserable eyes of his friend. "Would you like a hug ? It would make you feel so much better"

"Absolutely not," said Eeyore, taking a step backwards.

"No thank you very much. Physical contact is Very Much Not My Thing." 

"Then how about a different kind of hug ," said Piglet.

"A different kind of hug ?" said Eeyore, intrigued in spite of himself. "Whatever do you mean?"

"A hug , you know," continued Piglet, settling himself down on a pillow of leaves on one side of Eeyore and encouraging Pooh, on the other side, to do the same;

"a hug doesn't have to be about physically touching someone. A hug can be a lovely cup of tea someone has made you;

"or it can be a friend popping in just to see if you are okay; or it can be a silent wish sent heart to heart ;

"or it can be sitting with your two friends, not really saying very much at all, counting the Autumn leaves as they fall from the trees ."

"Oh," said Eeyore. "Oh," he said again. "I had no idea, that a hug could be all of that".

He thought for a while, quite a long while in fact, and then said; “If a leaf is at the top of the tree it will take ages to fall to the ground, won’t it?”.

“I hadn’t thought of that”, said Pooh. “I can imagine we could spend all day looking at leaves falling”.

“Let’s do that”, said Piglet. For a long time there was silence as Pooh and Piglet and Eeyore sat together and counted the leaves as they drifted down, swinging from side to side.

"I think," said Eeyore, after some reflection, "that this is the very nicest hug I have ever had."

We can not hug at the minute but sometimes all it takes is to be kind we are all under one sky, it might mean the world to someone. 

Eeyore - Depression

by Yana Walljasper

Oct 23, 2014

This is a video I made for my Mental Health in the Media class.

I don't own any of the video clips, all rights go to Disney.

Medical News Today - https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322395

NAMI - https://www.nami.org/About-Mental-Illness/Mental-Health-Conditions/Depression

WebMD - https://www.webmd.com/depression/mental-health-depression#1

Healthline - https://www.healthline.com/health/depression

Stepping Stone - https://www.steppingstones-counselingcenter.com/