Sunday, November 13, 2022

What are "Furries" and "Fursonas?" (Autoethnographies on Relationships)



Furries and Fursonas

by R.E. Slater
November 13, 2022

Recently the subject of "Furry" trans-people as arisen in Christian circles - although I'm sure I'm the last one to have heard of this social event, my engagement was less-than-satisfactory with fellow Christians who were running on high red-alert in their own wild mis-assessments on this same issue.

So, I'd like to state for the record my own non-professional Christian perspectives on this hot button issue that many are blowing up out-of-proportion to what they think is there.


A Public Over-Reaction

Yes, in some very small or rare instances within the trans community there are a few overt personal behaviors being observed who are calling themselves "furries"  as acts of healthy, self-healing with other similar souls - some of whom may be a trans-person, and some of whom may be deeply conflicted beyond the mere misunderstanding by the general public of what gender "lostness" can mean to those conflicted in their souls who sometimes portray themselves through a custome instead of by some other means like "drag-dressing styles."

Further, my comments here will be to approach this subject as more than an anime type "fan in a furry suit" or in "steampunk" or "medieval" or even as "civil war" re-enactors. I wish to approach the subject of "trans-furries" from more of a psychological / sociological viewpoint. But be aware that this may only apply to those rare few within the furry community (whether trans- or not) by which my sentiments might be helpfully applied to the more general "furry" population who are healthily normal and seeking fellowship not unlike other like-souled individuals when dressing up a movie re-enactors or the more common sports fans we observe on weekends.


What is Gender Lostness?
 
Transgenders are caught in a no man's land re sexual identity. One way to understand this community in their conflicts for personal identity has been through a very small trend where some few are exploring gender identity by "wearing" gender neutral personas which may provide emotional, mental, or even soul neutrality.

Rather than condemning these "persona-actors" as sin and evil consider these social behaviors as perhaps showing a form of emotional instability via aberrant social behavior whereby a "fursona" might sort out conflicted states of conformity within a gender safe, neutral environment while searching out more deeply held feelings of one's inner self.

Secondly, to those of us on the outside of a trans-gender's inner psycho-social conflicts, we may rightly feel distraught, unnerved, or adverse to any personal or public confrontations with "trans-explorers" as they confront our own personal senses of psycho-social behaviors and self-identity in public displays of decoherence.

My suggestion to you is to go with the flow with as little judgment or confrontation as possible. Your conflict, if externalized to a trans undergoing self-questioning, most likely won't help them - though it will very often provide to them their own justified feelings of self-conflict which they seek to "trans-cend". More likely you will be causing greater self-confirmation to an already dissettled persona in deep conflict with deeply turbulent life feelings and experiences in self-projected, or anticipated, environments of rejection by our many reactionary forms.

Therefore, it is critically important for us - as a non-trans, gender-confirming society - to accept and assist conflicted souls during their times of exploration... not to be judgmental, brutal, bullying, or harmful.


Final Words

To my Christian brothers and sisters, many of us live within our sheltered thoughts of a socio-religious gender conformity which grants an extremely low tolerance for other-difference. Especially when confronting socio-behavioral aberrancy. However, be the one individual in your community to show compassion and consideration to transgender souls who are actively choosing neither a male or female persona.... And remember, these personas are highly different than a bi-sexual's personal perception of themselves.

Finally, the world holds a lot of brokenness to the harms it has brought upon itself over the ages of socio-religious and political civilization development in community with one another. Every living person struggles with something within themselves, their home, their family, their friends and cohorts. There is no "perfect" Eden out there. Racism, hate, bullying, et al, has created wave upon wave of evil in this world. Try not to add to our common social experiences of rejection and brutality. None of us is God. Nor does God need to be "defended" by you, your church, or your beliefs. What God really needs is our responses to love. It is the most highly desired quality in a world of everywhere brokenness. Be love to one another. Be a safe space for healing. Be unlike ourselves and become scented balms of reciprocating fellowships of loving engagement, embrace, and energy.

Blessings,

R.E. Slater
November 13, 2022

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The use of a "fursona" to explore gender is useful in many ways, including being risk-free in terms of internal discomfort as well as externally. These findings may be significant for people who are looking for a safe way to explore their relationship with their gender.

USI 2020 Honors Symposium - Gender Identity and Fursonas

"A Furry Friend: An Autoethnography on the Relationship
Between Gender Identity and Fursonas."


Abstract

Transgender people identify as a gender other than the one assigned to them at birth, whether this is male, female, or something else entirely. Furries are people who have an interest in anthropomorphic animals, and many have a “fursona”, or an animal representation of the self. Furries often use fursonas to reflect a sexual or gender identity. LGBT+ people are a majority in the furry fandom, and there are more transgender people than in the general population [of self-identified fursonas].

Given that transgender people are more common in the furry community, research looking into the relationship between gender development and furry identity could yield interesting insights. The following project is an autoethnography done by a trans man who is a furry. His previous and current fursonas were dated and redrawn. Then, these "fursonas" were analyzed based on appearance and the author’s life events at the time, with a focus on his relationship to his gender. The analysis indicates that, not only did his fursonas change with his gender, but that the fursonas themselves were used as a tool for gender exploration. The use of a fursona to explore gender was useful in many ways, including it being risk-free in terms of internal discomfort as well as externally. These findings may be significant for people who are looking for a safe way to explore their relationship with their gender.

https://www.furaffinity.net/view/8556190/


My fursonas over time
By Sizz, posted 10 years ago Art Whore